TheAsianLoverReturns
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Good vid boxer, but you know the clowns on this site are going to be upset at the ideal of lying to a woman.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Exactly. That's why I have no problem lying to women...
We got some captain save a hos that think God would burn to them a cinder if they lied to a woman.
I try not to lie when I can because I have an absolute **** memory for such things, and nothing is more embarrassing for me than being found to be a fraud. Watched you video, liked how you talked about defending yourself and your free will. Interesting take, will remember it.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Exactly. That's why I have no problem lying to women...
We got some captain save a hos that think God would burn to them a cinder if they lied to a woman.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"Women prefer an exciting lie over the boring truth"joe henny said:Good vid boxer, but you know the clowns on this site are going to be upset at the ideal of lying to a woman.
Zarky, your sig go hard (tight!!) and I will remeber it also if I even feel down on myself. Real TalkZarky said:Because all women are exactly the same right? Read my sig, take it to heart.
True.TheAsianLoverReturns said:Women LIE in order to maintain POWER
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwjJWoW5DHk
That's why I have no problem withholding respect from both you and womenTheAsianLoverReturns said:Exactly. That's why I have no problem lying to women...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Thanks bro. I see the captain save a hos are jumping on the video.joe henny said:Good vid boxer, but you know the clowns on this site are going to be upset at the ideal of lying to a woman.
I've never had that happen. If you say it with confidence, she will accept anything you say.Iron said:I try not to lie when I can because I have an absolute **** memory for such things, and nothing is more embarrassing for me than being found to be a fraud. Watched you video, liked how you talked about defending yourself and your free will. Interesting take, will remember it.
Semi-related.....how do you react when a women doesn't believe your tale? Poker face or something else?
Example:
HB8: What do you do for a living (a.k.a what's your income level?)
Iron: I'm my own boss. I do a lot of financial consulting for businesses and investors.
HB8: Ya sure....you're full of it.
Iron: :nervous:
There isn't any reason for any of us to take you seriously eitherTheAsianLoverReturns said:Thanks bro. I see the captain save a hos are jumping on the video.
"A real man doesn't lie to women"
Like I'm going to accept the definition of a real man from a weak symping ass p*ssy pandering punk.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This ^5string said:This just blows my mind. Some of you guys think it's perfectly fine to lie to women just because they lie to you? WTF is that! A real man does not lie, whether it's with women or your golden retriever. Tell the fVckin truth fellas. If somebody can't handle the truth, so be it. At least you have maintained your dignity and not lowered yourself to the level of others who are not worth your time to begin with.
truth5string said:This just blows my mind. Some of you guys think it's perfectly fine to lie to women just because they lie to you? WTF is that! A real man does not lie, whether it's with women or your golden retriever. Tell the fVckin truth fellas. If somebody can't handle the truth, so be it. At least you have maintained your dignity and not lowered yourself to the level of others who are not worth your time to begin with.
truthjophil28 said:This ^
Allowing women's behavior to shape and mold your own is beyond weak.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.