"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Women cant complete you. Kill the thirst

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maybe I'm wrong (just speak up my mind) but it seems that women cares only about them selves and the relationship between them.
This is not judgemental statements, this is evolutionary process and who ever tries to change the system probably will not enjoy it fruits.
But this could be the cause to the formation of this void. Men tricked to think that he is in the center of her mind, while in the center there is actually a woman. A sexy, long, blonde. With perfect tits. And butt. Yeah. This is their void
 
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Maybe I'm wrong (just speak up my mind) but it seems that women cares only about them selves and the relationship between them.
This is not judgemental statements, this is evolutionary process and who ever tries to change the system probably will not enjoy it fruits.
But this could be the cause to the formation of this void. Men tricked to think that he is in the center of her mind, while in the center there is actually a women. A sexy, long, blonde. With perfect tits. And butt. Yeah. This is their void
So morpheus. Describe the system as it actually exists.
 

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Maybe I'm wrong (just speak up my mind) but it seems that women cares only about them selves and the relationship between them.
This is not judgemental statements, this is evolutionary process and who ever tries to change the system probably will not enjoy it fruits.
But this could be the cause to the formation of this void. Men tricked to think that he is in the center of her mind, while in the center there is actually a woman. A sexy, long, blonde. With perfect tits. And butt. Yeah. This is their void
So where does that leave men?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I also think this proves the existence of God. We can indulge in sex, money, drugs, nice cars or any other materialistic thing you can think of. Does it satisfy us? Nope

We are always looking for something deeper and we are hardwired for the divine.
It was indulging in hedonism that made me actually seek God. I moved to Vegas and experienced a brief stint of sexual abundance. But it didnt make me happy. It showed me spiritual darkness and introuduced me to a lot of broken women.

In my spiritual belief we are God that forgot it was God. God created this reality to experience darkness and light, good and evil and everything in between. The end goal of these experiences is to remember that we are divinity. Its a giant game of hide and go seek. Why? Because what else is there to do when you are God. Sometimes you just wanna forget.
 

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So where does that leave men?
Not here to advise only speak up my mind

The answer probably leave his mother and family and keep minimal contact with them if at all, you can try and fix it, but in most cases it wouldnt work because of the reasons stated already. She dont sees you as you are, she sees you in the way her brain manipulates her to, this is not love this is guilt, and one who feels guilt towards you can give you only negative emotions that'll keep you stagnating

If a guy spends his time in these forums searching for the "answer", this is probably the only possible scenario if he want to become truly independent

Finding his thing in life and have connections with other men, this will fill his void mostly, and women will fill it only temporarily, but he would be able to have much better connection with them after taking this path
 

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Dude, enough with the big words. What you call "thirst" is the meaning of life. You cannot kill it, without killing life itself.
We are all slaves of the Maslow's hierarchy, deal with it and do the work.
Yeh sex is on Maslows Heirarchy of needs but that doesnt mean its true. Ask any body that has been locked up for many years. Sex is not a need. Its becuase we think its a need that we are enslaved by American women. Once we can control our sex drives women will have no power over us.
Easier said than done i know.
 

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Suffering is caused by desire. Western-style consumerism feeds into this suffering by "creating" the need for material gain, sex, excess calories, and Disney love.

I think something more like "real love" can be achieved, but it involves more giving and less expecting to receive. At first that doesn't sound very "DJ" but it comes from acknowledging intrinsic value and sharing it.

Being in confinement for three months made me realize how un-thirsty I truly am.
Agreed with the bold. I loved working on myself for 3 months and just getting after it every day. Sh1t was great.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeh sex is on Maslows Heirarchy of needs but that doesnt mean its true. Ask any body that has been locked up for many years. Sex is not a need. Its becuase we think its a need that we are enslaved by American women. Once we can control our sex drives women will have no power over us.
Easier said than done i know.
You won't die without sex but your quality of life will be diminished without sex.
 

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Once we can control our sex drives women will have no power over us.
You still don't get it. You are supposed to feel something before each young-tight-hot ass. It is a feature, not a bug. This ass has power over you, so what ? You also have power over it, you can slap it. This is what life is about. Your concern about power should be directed towards the 1%, not the girl next door.
 

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You won't die without sex but your quality of life will be diminished without sex.
I agree but it can be another form of addiction one can argue and one major one that enlaves most of the male population into doing stupid stuff like Pandora said. And the reason why these forums exists.

ENSLAVEMENT - whether we know it or wanna admit it.

I mean if beta CEO's weren't enslaved by the female pvssy back in the 80's, 90's, 00's we wouldn't have so many $hitty unqualified female bosses that can't make great decisions and make stupid workplace policies.

If beta sports team owners and organizers weren't enslaved by the pvssy, we wouldn't have 300lb men in the NFL wearing pink for female causes and their narratives. We are the ones playing the sport and getting injured, why shouldn't we advocate prostate cancer instead? Let the pink causes stay with female sports with female audience members. I just think everything these days are more catered to women with men being insignificant.

Women can't be put in charge of anything major. Do you wanna know why? Because biologically/psychologically, they are too afraid to take major risks. Think about if we had a female as the boss of NASA, would we ever have reached the moon as early as we did? Hell no.
Guys do first and think later. It's not always good but historically, there's been a lot of achievements and ground breaking stuff that would've only happened with this type of thought process. OK Rant off...
 

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I agree but it can be another form of addiction one can argue and one major one that enlaves most of the male population into doing stupid stuff like Pandora said. And the reason why these forums exists.

ENSLAVEMENT - whether we know it or wanna admit it.

I mean if beta CEO's weren't enslaved by the female pvssy back in the 80's, 90's, 00's we wouldn't have so many $hitty unqualified female bosses that can't make great decisions and make stupid workplace policies.

If beta sports team owners and organizers weren't enslaved by the pvssy, we wouldn't have 300lb men in the NFL wearing pink for female causes and their narratives. We are the ones playing the sport and getting injured, why shouldn't we advocate prostate cancer instead? Let the pink causes stay with female sports with female audience members. I just think everything these days are more catered to women with men being insignificant.

Women can't be put in charge of anything major. Do you wanna know why? Because biologically/psychologically, they are too afraid to take major risks. Think about if we had a female as the boss of NASA, would we ever have reached the moon as early as we did? Hell no.
Guys do first and think later. It's not always good but historically, there's been a lot of achievements and ground breaking stuff that would've only happened with this type of thought process. OK Rant off...
Man can have sex without being addicted behind puzzy. I mean look at the historical costs? Shouldn't man eventually learn?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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@Pandora, just a thought, but if your last sexual relationship was terrible/unsatisfying, it can prompt the feeling that you can do without it.

Stay positive, your future will be more fun and satisfying.
Haha anytime you try to tell men that we should find purpose outside of women someone says " who hurt you?".

My last relationship was not terrible. For an average looking guy i have done ok in the dating market. My issue is that dating never fullfilled me like pursuing my goals did.

I wish i had found martial arts much earlier in life. Even though i am not good at it i absolutely love it. This fulfulls me more than chasing women ever did.

Anytime you put fulfillment into any human beinf outside of yourself and God you will ve disappointed. You cant understand this because you are a woman and you are made to be validated by men. Men are different. We were never made to be validated by women.

Paradoxically, when you see obsessed with something the women magically show you in your life.

I need to get back to practicing guitar again. I want to be good at that but i have plateaued. Any guitar players private message me lets chat.
 

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I agree but it can be another form of addiction one can argue and one major one that enlaves most of the male population into doing stupid stuff like Pandora said. And the reason why these forums exists.

ENSLAVEMENT - whether we know it or wanna admit it.

I mean if beta CEO's weren't enslaved by the female pvssy back in the 80's, 90's, 00's we wouldn't have so many $hitty unqualified female bosses that can't make great decisions and make stupid workplace policies.

If beta sports team owners and organizers weren't enslaved by the pvssy, we wouldn't have 300lb men in the NFL wearing pink for female causes and their narratives. We are the ones playing the sport and getting injured, why shouldn't we advocate prostate cancer instead? Let the pink causes stay with female sports with female audience members. I just think everything these days are more catered to women with men being insignificant.

Women can't be put in charge of anything major. Do you wanna know why? Because biologically/psychologically, they are too afraid to take major risks. Think about if we had a female as the boss of NASA, would we ever have reached the moon as early as we did? Hell no.
Guys do first and think later. It's not always good but historically, there's been a lot of achievements and ground breaking stuff that would've only happened with this type of thought process. OK Rant off...
Bro exactly. We have become so obsessed with the pleasure of intercourse that we cant admit our enslavement. Porn is the most widely used drug in the United States yet men still argue that we are not addicted to puzzy.

1.) Look at all the men that are stuck paying child support because of their addiction to puzzy.

2.) Look at the men who have died because of a jealous bf that killed them over puzzy

3.) Look at men who have betrayed their friends over puzzy

4.) Look at men who have contracted sti's over puzz

5.) Look at War Machine the guy who could have been a UFC star who is in prison for life over BPD puzzy‍

The Bible is full of stories warning men about the power of puzzy including the very first story.

I could go on and on. This rabbi i saw on youtube once said " a mans greatest challenge is his libido, an womans greatest challenge is her emotional stability" ..paraphrased of course.

No one is saying dont ever have sex. I am saying be careful because the more you feed the beast the hungrier it gets.
 
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Bro exactly. We have become so obsessed with the pleasure of intercourse that we cant admit our enslavement. Porn is the most widely used drug in the United States yet men still argue that we are not addicted to puzzy.

1.) Look at all the men that are stuck paying child support because of their addiction to puzzy.

2.) Look at the men who have died because of a jealous bf that killed them over puzzy

3.) Look at men who have betrayed their friends over puzzy

4.) Look at men who have contracted sti's over puzz

5.) Look at War Machine the guy who could have been a UFC star who is in prison for life over BPD puzzy‍

The Bible is full of stories warning men about the power of puzzy including the very first story.

I could go on and on. This rabbi i saw on youtube once said " a mans greatest challenge is his libido, an womans greatest challenge is her emotional stability" ..paraphrased of course.

No one is saying dont ever have sex. I am saying he careful becuase the more you feed the beast the hungrier it gets.
We need to find suitable and trustworthy people to have in our lives. That includes who we choose to lay down with or marry.
 

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Haha anytime you try to tell men that we should find purpose outside of women someone says " who hurt you?".

My last relationship was not terrible. For an average looking guy i have done ok in the dating market. My issue is that dating never fullfilled me like pursuing my goals did.

I wish i had found martial arts much earlier in life. Even though i am not good at it i absolutely love it. This fulfulls me more than chasing women ever did.

Anytime you put fulfillment into any human beinf outside of yourself and God you will ve disappointed. You cant understand this because you are a woman and you are made to be validated by men. Men are different. We were never made to be validated by women.

Paradoxically, when you see obsessed with something the women magically show you in your life.

I need to get back to practicing guitar again. I want to be good at that but i have plateaued. Any guitar players private message me lets chat.
awesome, you make great observations.

Keep chasing excellence and stay on your purpose. You don't seem to be a hurt man, sorry if that insulted man.
 

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Bro exactly. We have become so obsessed with the pleasure of intercourse that we cant admit our enslavement. Porn is the most widely used drug in the United States yet men still argue that we are not addicted to puzzy.

1.) Look at all the men that are stuck paying child support because of their addiction to puzzy.

2.) Look at the men who have died because of a jealous bf that killed them over puzzy

3.) Look at men who have betrayed their friends over puzzy

4.) Look at men who have contracted sti's over puzz

5.) Look at War Machine the guy who could have been a UFC star who is in prison for life over BPD puzzy‍

The Bible is full of stories warning men about the power of puzzy including the very first story.

I could go on and on. This rabbi i saw on youtube once said " a mans greatest challenge is his libido, an womans greatest challenge is her emotional stability" ..paraphrased of course.

No one is saying dont ever have sex. I am saying he careful becuase the more you feed the beast the hungrier it gets.
I used to watch rabbis on 'messages' program out of Toronto back in mid 2000's when I dated my Jewish exboyfriend.

Excellent rabbis out there.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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