“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Women are more Loyal than Men - Challenging Hypergamy

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Ya LA, all the experiences you describe are about getting dumped, cheated on, or abused by women.

I and other men don’t share the same experiences.

Hint: it’s not the women.
It’s the rump rangers
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Btw for the record, never cheated on a girl where exclusivity had been agreed on.

But it’s not in most girls’ best interest to be exclusive with me, the “asking price” to such a surrender is very high.
strange since your a virgin
 

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LMAO it's naughty ninja

Welcome back

Go call that ninja feminist Sazc here to back you up hahaha
 

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Trump tweets out of necessity.

It is the only way to communicate directly to the people and not through the yellow journalism MSM of today.
Doesn't matter which medium.

He's doing it because he can.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tsk Tsk Danger..

Spaz has moved into that empty space between your 2 ears.

And it's rent free too.
 

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This is a reframe attempt, but at it's root you are avoiding the low SMV Rando attributed to you.

I should add it to my list of your game tactics you employ here, so everyone can spot your operating procedure.

It's number 8 on the updated list below.

Still though, 4000 posts in less than a year, and not out of necessity like Trump.

One has to ponder Rando's question.....
Danger dont bother with such people, anytime someone use those tricks or simply goes with ad hominem attacks you can tell they are full of sh1t.

A really succesful person or even a simple emotionally stable one usually agrees to disagree not to waste energy and time, its ego invested people with personal issues that behaves otherwise with reframing or changing topic or simply bashing on personal leve.

After all we see that behaviour on middle aged spinsters mostly, you see them bombing facebook groups everyday while you the young goodlooking ones hardly do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Of course we always hear stories of women cheating... but I have to be honest it seems like most girls I've encountered who are in relationships won't stray.

I like to experiment with women/dating/seduction etc.... Most girls I know 100% or with someone or even recently started dating exclusively all don't seem interested in going out with other men.

I do have a current experiment which is an exception to this though which I'll post about separately but for the most part I agree with what I just wrote above.

I guess I'm somewhat being bold and challenging the hypergamy theory a bit.... Let me break it down simply to what I believe with an example and then hear all your rebuttals :)

Let's say an attractive female who has had a somewhat stable life has been dating a man who has a modest job... maybe he is retail store manager or something. Let's say an affluent doctor shows interest in her and want to date her... Well the reality I have seen is that the girl will not entertain dating this new doctor... Even if he presses her a bit with constant attention it will be difficult to make her budge.


Thoughts?
This thread along with your 'should I get married' thread shows your head is so far up your ass you'll never get it right.
 

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This thread along with your 'should I get married' thread shows your head is so far up your ass you'll never get it right.
Its actually up your mother's ass, I like doing charity work every now and again lol

What was your old screen name on here? The whole hypothesis that I am Indian was mentioned by only one person a while back who is obviously you. You really need a life bud, PM me if you want some tips on how to lose your virginity.
 

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Its actually up your mother's ass, I like doing charity work every now and again lol

What was your old screen name on here? The whole hypothesis that I am Indian was mentioned by only one person a while back who is obviously you. You really need a life bud, PM me if you want some tips on how to lose your virginity.
So you suffer from microcephaly. Characterized by very low intelligence, poor impulse control, and an inability to manage life affairs as an adult. The most telling trait being a low, sloping forehead. It makes sense now!
 

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So you suffer from microcephaly. Characterized by very low intelligence, poor impulse control, and an inability to manage life affairs as an adult. The most telling trait being a low, sloping forehead. It makes sense now!
Its sad that you would insult your mother's taste in men like that.
 

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How do you help this guy? The facts of his case are ridiculously clear:

1. he is older

2. he is low SMV (below average, average at very best)

3. he has delusional beliefs about his ability to become a "player" at a point in his life when most men are creating a legacy for themselves with their career, their family and their contributions to their community.

At the very least most men have the pride of being leaders in one form or another: with their family, with their community, with their company, perhaps they started one.

This guy, he is still emotionally dependent on WOMEN for his self esteem, for his sense of value. This is an incredibly stupid strategy even if it were realistic which it obviously isn't given his low social status.

Let this guy's life be a warning to everyone else. THIS is what happens when you adopt a PUA mentality and can't let go of it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do you help this guy? The facts of his case are ridiculously clear:

1. he is older

2. he is low SMV (below average, average at very best)

3. he has delusional beliefs about his ability to become a "player" at a point in his life when most men are creating a legacy for themselves with their career, their family and their contributions to their community.

At the very least most men have the pride of being leaders in one form or another: with their family, with their community, with their company, perhaps they started one.

This guy, he is still emotionally dependent on WOMEN for his self esteem, for his sense of value. This is an incredibly stupid strategy even if it were realistic which it obviously isn't given his low social status.

Let this guy's life be a warning to everyone else. THIS is what happens when you adopt a PUA mentality and can't let go of it.
Considering I'm not posting rhetoric just so that others can click 'Like' on my post in order to fulfill self esteem is sadder.

While its certainly not a good strategy to be dependent on women for self esteem (a flaw I can admit to) it's a lot more pathetic to rely on an online forum for it. At least my satisfaction is attained through real interactions with women. Plus hooking up is fun :)
 

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Considering I'm not posting rhetoric just so that others can click 'Like' on my post in order to fulfill self esteem is sadder.

While its certainly not a good strategy to be dependent on women for self esteem (a flaw I can admit to) it's a lot more pathetic to rely on an online forum for it. At least my satisfaction is attained through real interactions with women. Plus hooking up is fun :)
That's the problem. You're not "hooking up." This is a figment of your imagination. You are getting one armed hugs. This shows that your level of delusion is at a point where you cannot be helped. You can't even get your date to give you a two armed hug.

You think getting one armed hugs is a sign that you can be a full on player? This thread, your responses in particular are a warning sign to everyone reading how NOT to live their lives.
 

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That's the problem. You're not "hooking up." This is a figment of your imagination. You are getting one armed hugs. This shows that your level of delusion is at a point where you cannot be helped. You can't even get your date to give you a two armed hug.

You think getting one armed hugs is a sign that you can be a full on player? This thread, your responses in particular are a warning sign to everyone reading how NOT to live their lives.
You're really pathetic.. I'm done validating your moronic out of context statements. When you do pay that hooker for your first time make sure you glove up though, I'll at least leave you with that.
 

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You're really pathetic.. I'm done validating your moronic out of context statements. When you do pay that hooker for your first time make sure you glove up though, I'll at least leave you with that.
You stated the facts and I merely repeated them. A facebook add, one armed hugs, and avoiding any kissing are clear signs of dis-interest.

I'm not personally attacking you: I'm simply summarizing the facts you've presented and telling you what they mean. It's your problem if you are offended by the truth.

If you want me to be politically correct and feed into your delusion, just say so directly. Because it's clear that you can't handle the truth.
 

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You stated the facts and I merely repeated them. A facebook add, one armed hugs, and avoiding any kissing are clear signs of dis-interest.

I'm not personally attacking you: I'm simply summarizing the facts you've presented and telling you what they mean. It's your problem if you are offended by the truth.

If you want me to be politically correct and feed into your delusion, just say so directly. Because it's clear that you can't handle the truth.
I must have missed your credentials as being an all knowing PUA master. Please send them to me and I will give your posts credence.

Surely you must have a picture with one of your female cousins :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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