Women are more Loyal than Men - Challenging Hypergamy

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Of course we always hear stories of women cheating... but I have to be honest it seems like most girls I've encountered who are in relationships won't stray.

I like to experiment with women/dating/seduction etc.... Most girls I know 100% or with someone or even recently started dating exclusively all don't seem interested in going out with other men.

I do have a current experiment which is an exception to this though which I'll post about separately but for the most part I agree with what I just wrote above.

I guess I'm somewhat being bold and challenging the hypergamy theory a bit.... Let me break it down simply to what I believe with an example and then hear all your rebuttals :)

Let's say an attractive female who has had a somewhat stable life has been dating a man who has a modest job... maybe he is retail store manager or something. Let's say an affluent doctor shows interest in her and want to date her... Well the reality I have seen is that the girl will not entertain dating this new doctor... Even if he presses her a bit with constant attention it will be difficult to make her budge.


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some women are more loyal that some men

some men are dumber than some women

some men are fatter than some women

some women are taller than some women

some women are hotter than some animals

some men are more clueless than some anteaters

some puppies are sicker than some tuna sandwiches

some (collective noun) are (comparative) than (other collective noun)

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I wonder where this butthurt came from?
lol, yassss, im butthurt because of the way you've always been dumped....that makes sense.

It was an honest/sincere question that occurred to me based on what you posted.

I will go on to say that I have never left a relationship and gone straight into another. Every time I left a relationship there was no one waiting. The majority of my friends have the same experience. I do know serial daters tho. Their relationships tend to be short lived (3-6 mos, just in time for the honeymoon period to wear off) Some women do, some women dont. I am always of the mind that, if there is a repeating (any) pattern in your life, you need to look at your role in causing the situation. But I self examine.
 

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lol, yassss, im butthurt because of the way you've always been dumped....that makes sense.

It was an honest/sincere question that occurred to me based on what you posted.

I will go on to say that I have never left a relationship and gone straight into another. Every time I left a relationship there was no one waiting. The majority of my friends have the same experience. I don know serial daters tho. Their relationships tend to be short lived (3-6 mos, just in time for the honeymoon period to wear off) Some women do, some women dont. I am always of the mind that, if there is a repeating (any) pattern in your life, you need to look at your role in causing the situation. But I self examine.
Wait so if you make a categorical statement like "most rapes are committed by men" it's logical for me to respond "is that what happened to you?"

You're not as smart as you think you are but here's the data below (and only accounts for self reported maintained backups so the number would be higher if you included monkey branching).

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2769593/HALF-women-fall-partner-standby-fancied-case-current-relationship-turns-sour.html
 

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Ya LA, all the experiences you describe are about getting dumped, cheated on, or abused by women.

I and other men don’t share the same experiences.

Hint: it’s not the women.
you don't seriously believe that with your obvious narcissistic personality disorder you could admit to being cheated on, do you?

But you can keep following me around and pretending like your narcissistic Supply seeking non-exclusive relationships and cheating have any relevance to those of us that like exclusive relationships.
 
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Wait so if you make a categorical statement like "most rapes are committed by men" it's logical for me to respond "is that what happened to you?"

You're not as smart as you think you are but here's the data below (and only accounts for maintained backups so the number would be higher if you included monkey branching).

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2769593/HALF-women-fall-partner-standby-fancied-case-current-relationship-turns-sour.html
Yes, It is both logical and resonable for you to ask me anything based on what i post. I dont know why you would think it not logical or reasonable to do so....we are on a discussion board, after all

Okay, so, the daily mail says that 50% of all women have a backup waiting....but you stated that 100% of women have a backup waiting.
Women cant even end a relationship without backups and you think they cheat less?
To me this implies that you have some angst about your overall dating situation. You do understand that our personal viewpoints, and what we espouse on this board, absolutely reflect our personal experiences, correct?
 

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is that how it's always happened for you then?
BUUUURRRN. Lol. I'd post the Michael Jackson eating popcorn gif but I'm lazy.
 

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Yes, It is both logical and resonable for you to ask me anything based on what i post. I dont know why you would think it not logical or reasonable to do so....we are on a discussion board, after all

Okay, so, the daily mail says that 50% of all women have a backup waiting....but you stated that 100% of women have a backup waiting.

To me this implies that you have some angst about your overall dating situation. You do understand that our personal viewpoints, and what we espouse on this board, absolutely reflect our personal experiences, correct?
Its the fallacy of division actually, but like I said not as smart as you believe yourself to be. Likewise when we make categorical statements here we don't generally mean literally AWALT, how you didn't know that by now I'm not sure but maybe a hint of the 'tism.
 

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@LARaiders85 I dont recall reading a situation by @guru1000 where he's gotten exclusive with a female/put himself in a position to be cheated on. I would surmise that he (live every one of you on this board) has seen personal angst with women
 

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@LARaiders85 I dont recall reading a situation by @guru1000 where he's gotten exclusive with a female/put himself in a position to be cheated on. I would surmise that he (live every one of you on this board) has seen personal angst with women
Of course you don't recall any situation where he showed any weakness at all. No, he doesn't do exclusive relationships and he cheats on all his girlfriends.
 
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Its the fallacy of division actually, but like I said not as smart as you believe yourself to be. Likewise when we make categorical statements here we don't generally mean literally AWALT, how you didn't know that by now I'm not sure but maybe a hint of the 'tism.
Right....sure....not lol
there are PLENTY of men on this board alone that make sweeping categorical statements and mean them.
 

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@LARaiders85, stop lol

I’ve had more than double the LTRs than you, as well as longer relations.

You’re no psychologist, so let’s stop throwing coping terms to define individuals, to make their cheating explainable to your fragile mind.

Their is no explanation other than YOU are the problem. As long as your coping poisens young minds, you’ll continue to hear from me. Cope
with that.
 

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Right....sure....not lol
there are PLENTY of men on this board alone that make sweeping categorical statements and mean them.
Autism confirmed. "Right...sure....not lol" basic af confirmed.
 

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@LARaiders85, stop lol

I’ve had more than double the LTRs than you, as well as longer relations.

You’re no psychologist, so let’s stop throwing coping terms to define individuals, to make their cheating explainable to your fragile mind.

Their is no explanation other than YOU are the problem. As long as your coping poisens young minds, you’ll continue to hear from me. Cope
with that.
Guru I'm not the first to call you out and won't be the last. It's become Cartoon level at this point, I mean you refer to yourself in the third person for crissakes.
 

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@Reyaj, you could be right...you could be wrong, as John Lydon once sang.

If by "loyal" you mean a woman is less likely to ride a random c0ck just because the opportunity randomly presented itself, maybe that's true. A lot of men would probably cheat if they knew they'd get away with it, or if the opportunity were thrown at him. Women get c0ck thrown at them 24/7.

But always consider the power of slvt shaming, which when not a deterrent for women is at least a silencer. I've been with women with boyfriends who wouldn't even breathe a word of the fling to their supposed BFFs.

I also believe there is an infidelity spectrum and some girls just reside on the wrong end of it. Yes AWALT but some women are more prone to cheat. My ex cheated with me on her then-BF. I don't doubt she did the same on me. Then again, I wasn't that into her and didn't show much "loyalty."
 
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