"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Women are more Loyal than Men - Challenging Hypergamy

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Ya LA, all the experiences you describe are about getting dumped, cheated on, or abused by women.

I and other men don’t share the same experiences.

Hint: it’s not the women.
It’s the rump rangers
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Btw for the record, never cheated on a girl where exclusivity had been agreed on.

But it’s not in most girls’ best interest to be exclusive with me, the “asking price” to such a surrender is very high.
strange since your a virgin
 

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LMAO it's naughty ninja

Welcome back

Go call that ninja feminist Sazc here to back you up hahaha
 

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Trump tweets out of necessity.

It is the only way to communicate directly to the people and not through the yellow journalism MSM of today.
Doesn't matter which medium.

He's doing it because he can.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tsk Tsk Danger..

Spaz has moved into that empty space between your 2 ears.

And it's rent free too.
 

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This is a reframe attempt, but at it's root you are avoiding the low SMV Rando attributed to you.

I should add it to my list of your game tactics you employ here, so everyone can spot your operating procedure.

It's number 8 on the updated list below.

Still though, 4000 posts in less than a year, and not out of necessity like Trump.

One has to ponder Rando's question.....
Danger dont bother with such people, anytime someone use those tricks or simply goes with ad hominem attacks you can tell they are full of sh1t.

A really succesful person or even a simple emotionally stable one usually agrees to disagree not to waste energy and time, its ego invested people with personal issues that behaves otherwise with reframing or changing topic or simply bashing on personal leve.

After all we see that behaviour on middle aged spinsters mostly, you see them bombing facebook groups everyday while you the young goodlooking ones hardly do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Of course we always hear stories of women cheating... but I have to be honest it seems like most girls I've encountered who are in relationships won't stray.

I like to experiment with women/dating/seduction etc.... Most girls I know 100% or with someone or even recently started dating exclusively all don't seem interested in going out with other men.

I do have a current experiment which is an exception to this though which I'll post about separately but for the most part I agree with what I just wrote above.

I guess I'm somewhat being bold and challenging the hypergamy theory a bit.... Let me break it down simply to what I believe with an example and then hear all your rebuttals :)

Let's say an attractive female who has had a somewhat stable life has been dating a man who has a modest job... maybe he is retail store manager or something. Let's say an affluent doctor shows interest in her and want to date her... Well the reality I have seen is that the girl will not entertain dating this new doctor... Even if he presses her a bit with constant attention it will be difficult to make her budge.


Thoughts?
This thread along with your 'should I get married' thread shows your head is so far up your ass you'll never get it right.
 

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This thread along with your 'should I get married' thread shows your head is so far up your ass you'll never get it right.
Its actually up your mother's ass, I like doing charity work every now and again lol

What was your old screen name on here? The whole hypothesis that I am Indian was mentioned by only one person a while back who is obviously you. You really need a life bud, PM me if you want some tips on how to lose your virginity.
 

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Its actually up your mother's ass, I like doing charity work every now and again lol

What was your old screen name on here? The whole hypothesis that I am Indian was mentioned by only one person a while back who is obviously you. You really need a life bud, PM me if you want some tips on how to lose your virginity.
So you suffer from microcephaly. Characterized by very low intelligence, poor impulse control, and an inability to manage life affairs as an adult. The most telling trait being a low, sloping forehead. It makes sense now!
 

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So you suffer from microcephaly. Characterized by very low intelligence, poor impulse control, and an inability to manage life affairs as an adult. The most telling trait being a low, sloping forehead. It makes sense now!
Its sad that you would insult your mother's taste in men like that.
 

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How do you help this guy? The facts of his case are ridiculously clear:

1. he is older

2. he is low SMV (below average, average at very best)

3. he has delusional beliefs about his ability to become a "player" at a point in his life when most men are creating a legacy for themselves with their career, their family and their contributions to their community.

At the very least most men have the pride of being leaders in one form or another: with their family, with their community, with their company, perhaps they started one.

This guy, he is still emotionally dependent on WOMEN for his self esteem, for his sense of value. This is an incredibly stupid strategy even if it were realistic which it obviously isn't given his low social status.

Let this guy's life be a warning to everyone else. THIS is what happens when you adopt a PUA mentality and can't let go of it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you help this guy? The facts of his case are ridiculously clear:

1. he is older

2. he is low SMV (below average, average at very best)

3. he has delusional beliefs about his ability to become a "player" at a point in his life when most men are creating a legacy for themselves with their career, their family and their contributions to their community.

At the very least most men have the pride of being leaders in one form or another: with their family, with their community, with their company, perhaps they started one.

This guy, he is still emotionally dependent on WOMEN for his self esteem, for his sense of value. This is an incredibly stupid strategy even if it were realistic which it obviously isn't given his low social status.

Let this guy's life be a warning to everyone else. THIS is what happens when you adopt a PUA mentality and can't let go of it.
Considering I'm not posting rhetoric just so that others can click 'Like' on my post in order to fulfill self esteem is sadder.

While its certainly not a good strategy to be dependent on women for self esteem (a flaw I can admit to) it's a lot more pathetic to rely on an online forum for it. At least my satisfaction is attained through real interactions with women. Plus hooking up is fun :)
 

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Considering I'm not posting rhetoric just so that others can click 'Like' on my post in order to fulfill self esteem is sadder.

While its certainly not a good strategy to be dependent on women for self esteem (a flaw I can admit to) it's a lot more pathetic to rely on an online forum for it. At least my satisfaction is attained through real interactions with women. Plus hooking up is fun :)
That's the problem. You're not "hooking up." This is a figment of your imagination. You are getting one armed hugs. This shows that your level of delusion is at a point where you cannot be helped. You can't even get your date to give you a two armed hug.

You think getting one armed hugs is a sign that you can be a full on player? This thread, your responses in particular are a warning sign to everyone reading how NOT to live their lives.
 

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That's the problem. You're not "hooking up." This is a figment of your imagination. You are getting one armed hugs. This shows that your level of delusion is at a point where you cannot be helped. You can't even get your date to give you a two armed hug.

You think getting one armed hugs is a sign that you can be a full on player? This thread, your responses in particular are a warning sign to everyone reading how NOT to live their lives.
You're really pathetic.. I'm done validating your moronic out of context statements. When you do pay that hooker for your first time make sure you glove up though, I'll at least leave you with that.
 

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You're really pathetic.. I'm done validating your moronic out of context statements. When you do pay that hooker for your first time make sure you glove up though, I'll at least leave you with that.
You stated the facts and I merely repeated them. A facebook add, one armed hugs, and avoiding any kissing are clear signs of dis-interest.

I'm not personally attacking you: I'm simply summarizing the facts you've presented and telling you what they mean. It's your problem if you are offended by the truth.

If you want me to be politically correct and feed into your delusion, just say so directly. Because it's clear that you can't handle the truth.
 

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You stated the facts and I merely repeated them. A facebook add, one armed hugs, and avoiding any kissing are clear signs of dis-interest.

I'm not personally attacking you: I'm simply summarizing the facts you've presented and telling you what they mean. It's your problem if you are offended by the truth.

If you want me to be politically correct and feed into your delusion, just say so directly. Because it's clear that you can't handle the truth.
I must have missed your credentials as being an all knowing PUA master. Please send them to me and I will give your posts credence.

Surely you must have a picture with one of your female cousins :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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