"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Will you ever settle?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wifehunter
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mrgoodstuff
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A golden goose.
What if she pays her half on bills, has you back, fixes most of the meals and fvcks you nightly?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The Duke
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You definitely need to be an experienced man before you ever get tied down. But don't ever settle, always strive for the best.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
nah, I got the bills.....she can fry the bacon extra crispy!
wifehunter
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Settling is for orbiters.
DEEZEDBRAH
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How could divorce stat being 50% + and 80%+ initiated by women meaning divorce rape. Its also known the Pareto distribution. 80:20 meaning, 80% of women are Chad's booty call during top form SMV.
How does DJ lifestyle mitigate divorce rape?
No cohabitation. No marriage. Troll thots on sight talking it.
New girls turning 18 everyday.
Step your game up kuz
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wifehunter
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Here's an exception:
Never settle for a 'low quality' woman. If you happen to run across a 'high quality' woman, you just won the lottery.
nothing more than perfect reason for why to not marry a light skinned white woman who doesn't take care of herself
marry a hot ethnic woman into working out and she looks like this in her 50s
I would argue she looks younger there than the man does
zekko
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About the same.
she has beautiful, near flawless skin for a 50 year. He has plenty signs of aging in the face
Although I'm sure she's using makeup so yea you're right
That picture with Tom Cruise though is why I'm so scared to get involved with white women. In my Armenian culture, we don't get wrinkles until like 70s and 80s. White women start getting wrinkles at 40s. My mom has better skin than white women I see who are 40 and she's nearly 60. I think it's the fact that we have a dark, thick, oily skin that keeps us looking very young for a long time. Even my dad's mom at 74, when she passed away, was still beautiful (for a 74 year old I mean)
The older I get, the more I want to marry an Armenian woman
zekko
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She has a resting face, whereas he is smiling. I'd like to see how her skin reacts to having some tension in her face before saying for sure. Her lips have a lot of cracks in them. Guys generally look "rugged" with a little wear on their face, so he's probably okay there. To my eyes he still looks pretty young because his hair is mostly dark.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
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That's a great looking dude would make any female look better standing next to him. Your idolizing these females...nothing more than perfect reason for why to not marry a light skinned white woman who doesn't take care of herself
marry a hot ethnic woman into working out and she looks like this in her 50s
I would argue she looks younger there than the man does
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
100%. He could easily bang down to the 20's. She's a nice looking lady.
he's a hollywood celeb. Even the ugly ones can do that
mrgoodstuff
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For sure. You take that same looking guy and he a regular guy who doesn't like social circle and does his own thing he's going to have a harder time. Some of the females in existing circles will NEG him or try to bytch down his confidence. His only way in is to start fvcking one of the group, some how some way. Others will want him due to preselection.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.