You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A golden goose.If she poops out gold...keep her.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
nah, I got the bills.....she can fry the bacon extra crispy!A golden goose.
What if she pays her half on bills, has you back, fixes most of the meals and fvcks you nightly?
Settling is for orbiters.Its going to take Ms. Almost Perfect for me to want a serious long term relationship. Highly doubt I will ever marry again.
You definitely need to be an experienced man before you ever get tied down. But don't ever settle, always strive for the best.
How could divorce stat being 50% + and 80%+ initiated by women meaning divorce rape. Its also known the Pareto distribution. 80:20 meaning, 80% of women are Chad's booty call during top form SMV.I came across many posts in the forum that recommend never to marry or settle with one girl and was wondering, how could that affect you as a DJ?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Here's an exception:Do what the **** you want.
I would always question my own insanity if I needed the approval of a baying forum to sway me in what i should do....
.......you need always persue your own persuits my good man. Or if I may be so bold, **** all else in your persuit...
Consider this before settling.
About the same.I would argue she looks younger there than the man does
she has beautiful, near flawless skin for a 50 year. He has plenty signs of aging in the faceAbout the same.
She has a resting face, whereas he is smiling. I'd like to see how her skin reacts to having some tension in her face before saying for sure. Her lips have a lot of cracks in them. Guys generally look "rugged" with a little wear on their face, so he's probably okay there. To my eyes he still looks pretty young because his hair is mostly dark.she has beautiful, near flawless skin for a 50 year. He has plenty signs of aging in the face
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That's a great looking dude would make any female look better standing next to him. Your idolizing these females...nothing more than perfect reason for why to not marry a light skinned white woman who doesn't take care of herself
marry a hot ethnic woman into working out and she looks like this in her 50s
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I would argue she looks younger there than the man does
yea they're a nice looking coupleThat's a great looking dude would make any female look better standing next to him. Your idolizing these females...
100%. He could easily bang down to the 20's. She's a nice looking lady.yea they're a nice looking couple
she is also wearing makeup and he's not
100%. He could easily bang down to the 20's. She's a nice looking lady.
For sure. You take that same looking guy and he a regular guy who doesn't like social circle and does his own thing he's going to have a harder time. Some of the females in existing circles will NEG him or try to bytch down his confidence. His only way in is to start fvcking one of the group, some how some way. Others will want him due to preselection.he's a hollywood celeb. Even the ugly ones can do that
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.