Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
A golden goose.If she poops out gold...keep her.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
nah, I got the bills.....she can fry the bacon extra crispy!A golden goose.
What if she pays her half on bills, has you back, fixes most of the meals and fvcks you nightly?
Settling is for orbiters.Its going to take Ms. Almost Perfect for me to want a serious long term relationship. Highly doubt I will ever marry again.
You definitely need to be an experienced man before you ever get tied down. But don't ever settle, always strive for the best.
How could divorce stat being 50% + and 80%+ initiated by women meaning divorce rape. Its also known the Pareto distribution. 80:20 meaning, 80% of women are Chad's booty call during top form SMV.I came across many posts in the forum that recommend never to marry or settle with one girl and was wondering, how could that affect you as a DJ?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Here's an exception:Do what the **** you want.
I would always question my own insanity if I needed the approval of a baying forum to sway me in what i should do....
.......you need always persue your own persuits my good man. Or if I may be so bold, **** all else in your persuit...
Consider this before settling.
About the same.I would argue she looks younger there than the man does
she has beautiful, near flawless skin for a 50 year. He has plenty signs of aging in the faceAbout the same.
She has a resting face, whereas he is smiling. I'd like to see how her skin reacts to having some tension in her face before saying for sure. Her lips have a lot of cracks in them. Guys generally look "rugged" with a little wear on their face, so he's probably okay there. To my eyes he still looks pretty young because his hair is mostly dark.she has beautiful, near flawless skin for a 50 year. He has plenty signs of aging in the face
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That's a great looking dude would make any female look better standing next to him. Your idolizing these females...nothing more than perfect reason for why to not marry a light skinned white woman who doesn't take care of herself
marry a hot ethnic woman into working out and she looks like this in her 50s
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I would argue she looks younger there than the man does
yea they're a nice looking coupleThat's a great looking dude would make any female look better standing next to him. Your idolizing these females...
100%. He could easily bang down to the 20's. She's a nice looking lady.yea they're a nice looking couple
she is also wearing makeup and he's not
100%. He could easily bang down to the 20's. She's a nice looking lady.
For sure. You take that same looking guy and he a regular guy who doesn't like social circle and does his own thing he's going to have a harder time. Some of the females in existing circles will NEG him or try to bytch down his confidence. His only way in is to start fvcking one of the group, some how some way. Others will want him due to preselection.he's a hollywood celeb. Even the ugly ones can do that
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.