"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Will you ever settle?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
wifehunter
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mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
A golden goose.
What if she pays her half on bills, has you back, fixes most of the meals and fvcks you nightly?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The Duke
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You definitely need to be an experienced man before you ever get tied down. But don't ever settle, always strive for the best.
wifehunter
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nah, I got the bills.....she can fry the bacon extra crispy!
wifehunter
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Settling is for orbiters.
DEEZEDBRAH
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How could divorce stat being 50% + and 80%+ initiated by women meaning divorce rape. Its also known the Pareto distribution. 80:20 meaning, 80% of women are Chad's booty call during top form SMV.
How does DJ lifestyle mitigate divorce rape?
No cohabitation. No marriage. Troll thots on sight talking it.
New girls turning 18 everyday.
Step your game up kuz
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wifehunter
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Here's an exception:
Never settle for a 'low quality' woman. If you happen to run across a 'high quality' woman, you just won the lottery.
nothing more than perfect reason for why to not marry a light skinned white woman who doesn't take care of herself
marry a hot ethnic woman into working out and she looks like this in her 50s
I would argue she looks younger there than the man does
zekko
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About the same.
she has beautiful, near flawless skin for a 50 year. He has plenty signs of aging in the face
Although I'm sure she's using makeup so yea you're right
That picture with Tom Cruise though is why I'm so scared to get involved with white women. In my Armenian culture, we don't get wrinkles until like 70s and 80s. White women start getting wrinkles at 40s. My mom has better skin than white women I see who are 40 and she's nearly 60. I think it's the fact that we have a dark, thick, oily skin that keeps us looking very young for a long time. Even my dad's mom at 74, when she passed away, was still beautiful (for a 74 year old I mean)
The older I get, the more I want to marry an Armenian woman
zekko
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She has a resting face, whereas he is smiling. I'd like to see how her skin reacts to having some tension in her face before saying for sure. Her lips have a lot of cracks in them. Guys generally look "rugged" with a little wear on their face, so he's probably okay there. To my eyes he still looks pretty young because his hair is mostly dark.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
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That's a great looking dude would make any female look better standing next to him. Your idolizing these females...nothing more than perfect reason for why to not marry a light skinned white woman who doesn't take care of herself
marry a hot ethnic woman into working out and she looks like this in her 50s
I would argue she looks younger there than the man does
mrgoodstuff
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100%. He could easily bang down to the 20's. She's a nice looking lady.
he's a hollywood celeb. Even the ugly ones can do that
mrgoodstuff
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For sure. You take that same looking guy and he a regular guy who doesn't like social circle and does his own thing he's going to have a harder time. Some of the females in existing circles will NEG him or try to bytch down his confidence. His only way in is to start fvcking one of the group, some how some way. Others will want him due to preselection.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.