Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Why women are entitled
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
El Payaso
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Some girl snapchatted her body and a guy responded with that message over the picture.
She took a screenshot of it and shared it on her Facebook with laughing emojis.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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wifehunter
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me thinks, maybe not
RichardTheFrog
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And who are those chosen few? I would like to be one but it's seeming like that's not going to happen.
What is it that I'm missing? What do they have that I don't?
user43770
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The ability to speak to women.
You can learn game just by reading it, but you actually have to practice it to get any good at it.
RichardTheFrog
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When I talk, they don't talk back.
I can talk all day long if there's something to talk about. But I can't create conversation from nowhere.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
user43770
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Well then look through the dj bible for conversation topics and then go out and practice.
The book How to Win Friends and Influence People would help you out a lot.
RichardTheFrog
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I read that book. It was stupid. I don't want to win friends or influence people.
user43770
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We're all thirsty. It's the delivery that counts.
user43770
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That's exactly what you want to do.
RichardTheFrog
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No, I don't. I don't believe in male friends. It's everyone for themselves.
You know how many times I've been ripped off by someone claiming to be my friend? After a certain age, it's gay to have male friends.
Influence people to do what? I can't change the world on a massive scale.
I'd rather stay to myself and make money quietly.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
user43770
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You want to influence women to sleep with you. To do that, you need to learn how to hold a converstation, hence the book.
RichardTheFrog
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I can talk all day if there's actually something to talk about. I had an appointment with a female nutritionist today and we talked for close to an hour. I can talk to girls that work at bank, post office, etc.
But I can't create a conversation out of nowhere.
Bible_Belt
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Then why should anyone else ever help you?
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Dude in the pic is pathetic.
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We shouldn't blame women for reacting to and taking advantage of the weakness of men. In this day and age, men can very easily learn how to become successful owing to the abundance of information and advice available online. If they can't be bothered to learn, I don't care, because it means more ***** for me.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.