Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Some girl snapchatted her body and a guy responded with that message over the picture.I think Im blind but what is this photo showing apart from text
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
And who are those chosen few? I would like to be one but it's seeming like that's not going to happen.this shouldnt be upsetting to any guy with even an sleight awareness of game.
just more p00n for the chosen few to go around
The ability to speak to women.What is it that I'm missing? What do they have that I don't?
When I talk, they don't talk back.The ability to speak to women.
You can learn game just by reading it, but you actually have to practice it to get any good at it.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well then look through the dj bible for conversation topics and then go out and practice.When I talk, they don't talk back.
I can talk all day long if there's something to talk about. But I can't create conversation from nowhere.
I read that book. It was stupid. I don't want to win friends or influence people.Well then look through the dj bible for conversation topics and then go out and practice.
The book How to Win Friends and Influence People would help you out a lot.
We're all thirsty. It's the delivery that counts.Thirst
That's exactly what you want to do.I read that book. It was stupid. I don't want to win friends or influence people.
No, I don't. I don't believe in male friends. It's everyone for themselves.That's exactly what you want to do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You want to influence women to sleep with you. To do that, you need to learn how to hold a converstation, hence the book.No, I don't. I don't believe in male friends. It's everyone for themselves.
You know how many times I've been ripped off by someone claiming to be my friend? After a certain age, it's gay to have male friends.
Influence people to do what? I can't change the world on a massive scale.
I'd rather stay to myself and make money quietly.
I can talk all day if there's actually something to talk about. I had an appointment with a female nutritionist today and we talked for close to an hour. I can talk to girls that work at bank, post office, etc.You want to influence women to sleep with you. To do that, you need to learn how to hold a converstation, hence the book.
Then why should anyone else ever help you?No, I don't. I don't believe in male friends. It's everyone for themselves.
Dude in the pic is pathetic.When you have guys willing to do things like this, why won't they feel entitled.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.