Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Some girl snapchatted her body and a guy responded with that message over the picture.I think Im blind but what is this photo showing apart from text
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
And who are those chosen few? I would like to be one but it's seeming like that's not going to happen.this shouldnt be upsetting to any guy with even an sleight awareness of game.
just more p00n for the chosen few to go around
The ability to speak to women.What is it that I'm missing? What do they have that I don't?
When I talk, they don't talk back.The ability to speak to women.
You can learn game just by reading it, but you actually have to practice it to get any good at it.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well then look through the dj bible for conversation topics and then go out and practice.When I talk, they don't talk back.
I can talk all day long if there's something to talk about. But I can't create conversation from nowhere.
I read that book. It was stupid. I don't want to win friends or influence people.Well then look through the dj bible for conversation topics and then go out and practice.
The book How to Win Friends and Influence People would help you out a lot.
We're all thirsty. It's the delivery that counts.Thirst
That's exactly what you want to do.I read that book. It was stupid. I don't want to win friends or influence people.
No, I don't. I don't believe in male friends. It's everyone for themselves.That's exactly what you want to do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You want to influence women to sleep with you. To do that, you need to learn how to hold a converstation, hence the book.No, I don't. I don't believe in male friends. It's everyone for themselves.
You know how many times I've been ripped off by someone claiming to be my friend? After a certain age, it's gay to have male friends.
Influence people to do what? I can't change the world on a massive scale.
I'd rather stay to myself and make money quietly.
I can talk all day if there's actually something to talk about. I had an appointment with a female nutritionist today and we talked for close to an hour. I can talk to girls that work at bank, post office, etc.You want to influence women to sleep with you. To do that, you need to learn how to hold a converstation, hence the book.
Then why should anyone else ever help you?No, I don't. I don't believe in male friends. It's everyone for themselves.
Dude in the pic is pathetic.When you have guys willing to do things like this, why won't they feel entitled.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.