"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why women are entitled

El Payaso

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When you have guys willing to do things like this, why won't they feel entitled.
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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f*ckin hell, wow, amazing how insanely idiotic some guys are. Someone should have him getting diagnosed somewhere and looking at his childhood to determine what kind of serious issues his parents laid down on him so that he would allow some piece of filth to treat him like that.
 

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I think Im blind but what is this photo showing apart from text
Some girl snapchatted her body and a guy responded with that message over the picture.

She took a screenshot of it and shared it on her Facebook with laughing emojis.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I feel stupid... am I missing something?

me thinks, maybe not:p
 
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this shouldnt be upsetting to any guy with even an sleight awareness of game.

just more p00n for the chosen few to go around
And who are those chosen few? I would like to be one but it's seeming like that's not going to happen.

What is it that I'm missing? What do they have that I don't?
 
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The ability to speak to women.

You can learn game just by reading it, but you actually have to practice it to get any good at it.
When I talk, they don't talk back.

I can talk all day long if there's something to talk about. But I can't create conversation from nowhere.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When I talk, they don't talk back.

I can talk all day long if there's something to talk about. But I can't create conversation from nowhere.
Well then look through the dj bible for conversation topics and then go out and practice.

The book How to Win Friends and Influence People would help you out a lot.
 
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That's exactly what you want to do.
No, I don't. I don't believe in male friends. It's everyone for themselves.

You know how many times I've been ripped off by someone claiming to be my friend? After a certain age, it's gay to have male friends.

Influence people to do what? I can't change the world on a massive scale.

I'd rather stay to myself and make money quietly.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No, I don't. I don't believe in male friends. It's everyone for themselves.

You know how many times I've been ripped off by someone claiming to be my friend? After a certain age, it's gay to have male friends.

Influence people to do what? I can't change the world on a massive scale.

I'd rather stay to myself and make money quietly.
You want to influence women to sleep with you. To do that, you need to learn how to hold a converstation, hence the book.
 
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You want to influence women to sleep with you. To do that, you need to learn how to hold a converstation, hence the book.
I can talk all day if there's actually something to talk about. I had an appointment with a female nutritionist today and we talked for close to an hour. I can talk to girls that work at bank, post office, etc.

But I can't create a conversation out of nowhere.
 

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Women are entitled, but so are men. Pathetic men make women entitled, and men become pathetic nice guys when they watch too many rom-coms. There are plenty of nice guys on this forum, still angry at the fact that their niceness doesn't get them laid. Any time you see a guy projecting anger outward into the world, he's a nice guy. That niceness is his entitlement; because learning to be 'nice' is easy, once you've watched a couple of movies and fairy tales.

We shouldn't blame women for reacting to and taking advantage of the weakness of men. In this day and age, men can very easily learn how to become successful owing to the abundance of information and advice available online. If they can't be bothered to learn, I don't care, because it means more ***** for me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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