"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why women are entitled
- Thread starter El Payaso
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
El Payaso
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Some girl snapchatted her body and a guy responded with that message over the picture.
She took a screenshot of it and shared it on her Facebook with laughing emojis.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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wifehunter
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me thinks, maybe not
RichardTheFrog
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And who are those chosen few? I would like to be one but it's seeming like that's not going to happen.
What is it that I'm missing? What do they have that I don't?
user43770
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The ability to speak to women.
You can learn game just by reading it, but you actually have to practice it to get any good at it.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
When I talk, they don't talk back.
I can talk all day long if there's something to talk about. But I can't create conversation from nowhere.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
user43770
Guest
Well then look through the dj bible for conversation topics and then go out and practice.
The book How to Win Friends and Influence People would help you out a lot.
RichardTheFrog
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I read that book. It was stupid. I don't want to win friends or influence people.
user43770
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We're all thirsty. It's the delivery that counts.
user43770
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That's exactly what you want to do.
RichardTheFrog
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No, I don't. I don't believe in male friends. It's everyone for themselves.
You know how many times I've been ripped off by someone claiming to be my friend? After a certain age, it's gay to have male friends.
Influence people to do what? I can't change the world on a massive scale.
I'd rather stay to myself and make money quietly.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
user43770
Guest
You want to influence women to sleep with you. To do that, you need to learn how to hold a converstation, hence the book.
RichardTheFrog
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I can talk all day if there's actually something to talk about. I had an appointment with a female nutritionist today and we talked for close to an hour. I can talk to girls that work at bank, post office, etc.
But I can't create a conversation out of nowhere.
Bible_Belt
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Then why should anyone else ever help you?
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Dude in the pic is pathetic.
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We shouldn't blame women for reacting to and taking advantage of the weakness of men. In this day and age, men can very easily learn how to become successful owing to the abundance of information and advice available online. If they can't be bothered to learn, I don't care, because it means more ***** for me.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.