"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MikeYikes122

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A lot of flaming and flame-bating recently. I don't even really like starting threads anymore.

That and there have been a lot of looks threads or threads that have somehow turned into a looks debate.
 

iqqi

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Lol.

It seems like only certain people with certain stances are labeled flamers, when actually there are a lot of "flamers", and a lot of "flaming" going on.

I think someone is too gung ho.
 

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iqqi said:
I think someone is too gung ho.
You are challenging the MAN Iqqi...you have been forewarned.

Bring down the hammer Mods!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Threads are getting locked because people are going completely off-topic. My very first thread on this board asking for advice, turned into a 100+ post flame-war mostly between two idiots who could care less what the OP was about and just wanted to call each other names.

I'm surprised they haven't shut down more threads.
 

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AgonyUncle said:
I'm going to take a wild guess that it was for the reasons Rollo stated in every thread that he locked. If you had additional questions about his reasoning, why didn't you just PM him instead of making a thread about it?
 

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It has nothing to do with my thread being locked. If you look at the front page of this forum, there are about 5 or 6 that are locked. It seems to be a common practice, and I was curious to know why. That was the reason why I riased it

Saying that, I find it rather amusing that Iqqi calls for a thread lock only to have her wish granted. I know the thread offended her judging by the responses she gave, but calling for the thead to be locked seemed a little, i dunno, extreme.

Sorry Iqqi. American women are ugly and dumb :)

/duck
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AgonyUncle

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Perhaps.

Locking a thread is akin to censorship. And thats for facist terrorists thank you very much. :)
 

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AgonyUncle said:
Perhaps.

Locking a thread is akin to censorship. And thats for facist terrorists thank you very much. :)
If you read the thread you would know why they are locked.

ps this forum isn't a democracy, its a dictatorship run by the owner.
 

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AgonyUncle said:
Perhaps.

Locking a thread is akin to censorship. And thats for facist terrorists thank you very much. :)
You could always defect, I don't even think that a travel visa is required.
 

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Suicide bombing is oh so last year.

Im all about whippings over teddy bears called Mo these days.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok, I will take you at your word and forgive you, then. Sarcasm is not easy to see in text.

I *really* hate it when about any thread is locked. I think mods do it too much.
 

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AgonyUncle said:
Perhaps.

Locking a thread is akin to censorship. And thats for facist terrorists thank you very much. :)
Nice bit o drama there queenie. Maybe you should demand a refund. As a forum admin myself I hate it when people whip this idiotic argument out.

Censorship is something the state does. Although available to the public this is a privately run forum and not really much different than being in someone's living room. If they don't like what you're saying they can tell you to shut up or throw you out, no explanations needed.

Instead of whining about censorship, maybe you should be thanking them for making this available at no charge. Failing that you can a) leave or b) get off your lazy ass and setup your own forum so that you can listen to functional retards equate enforcing the house rules with terrorism.

Do you let your dog crap in the house? No? I guess that makes you a fascist terrorist too.:box:
 

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Eddie417 said:
Nice bit o drama there queenie. Maybe you should demand a refund. As a forum admin myself I hate it when people whip this idiotic argument out.

Censorship is something the state does. Although available to the public this is a privately run forum and not really much different than being in someone's living room. If they don't like what you're saying they can tell you to shut up or throw you out, no explanations needed.

Instead of whining about censorship, maybe you should be thanking them for making this available at no charge. Failing that you can a) leave or b) get off your lazy ass and setup your own forum so that you can listen to functional retards equate enforcing the house rules with terrorism.

Do you let your dog crap in the house? No? I guess that makes you a fascist terrorist too.:box:
:up:
 

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Eddie417 said:
Although available to the public this is a privately run forum and not really much different than being in someone's living room. If they don't like what you're saying they can tell you to shut up or throw you out, no explanations needed.
Yeah... I'm pretty sure this is Allen's living room, in that context, not Rollo's.

And I am pretty sure Allen would be more apt to agree with this little nugget here:

Bible_Belt said:
I *really* hate it when about any thread is locked. I think mods do it too much.
Respectfully, iqqi.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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