"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why so many threads getting locked?

mrRuckus

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The mere fact that people are questioning whether so many threads should be locked serves as checks and balances by causing mods to question whether the thread they are locking really needs to be locked. That way we can lean more towards threads being locked for the right reasons more than any personal bias any mods being human might lean towards now and then.

It's just a little bit of peer review (not in the scientific usage).

Sure it's someone else's board to own and operate as they see fit, but I doubt they want to serve as gods over us mere mortal users.

I've never liked the "go somewhere else" or "if you don't like it, move" arguments. That is nothing but running away from problems and soon there is no where left to run to since there are problems everywhere. Might as well speak up in hopes of change, but there's no use in being a smarmy pr1ck about it or being sarcastic as if the written word has tone others can pick up.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bigjohnson

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Until this thread is locked. I've noticed a lot of ... henpecking. They can rename this place the Lifetime Forum pretty soon.
 

STR8UP

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Half of the threads locked were mine, even though supposedly me and Rollo and a few others are in cahoots to control the sosuave universe.

When the trolls come, the threads become nothing more than useless arguments, and to maintain the integrity of the board they get shut down. Pretty simple.
 

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Mr Ruckus, if you actually read the threads, you would realize that there is a reason for locking the threads. They are just locked because the mods didn't like a certain poster. Your trying to make a general statement but have no facts to back it up.
 

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Eddie417 said:
Censorship is something the state does.
Usually, yes, but the word itself is not specific to government action only.


http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/censor

cen·sor·ship
–noun 1. the act or practice of censoring.

cen·sor
–noun 1. an official who examines books, plays, news reports, motion pictures, radio and television programs, letters, cablegrams, etc., for the purpose of suppressing parts deemed objectionable on moral, political, military, or other grounds.

2. any person who supervises the manners or morality of others.

3. an adverse critic; faultfinder.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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