"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why is "Traits of a Real DJ" not allowed as a discussion on the main forum?

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I think most women's forums would be too afraid to come and troll the DJ boards, because it would only be instigating the DJs to go troll THEIR boards.

I enjoy this site, but I sure as hell wouldn't want you guys posting DJ **** on one of my other sites I go to. (It just wouldn't belong). Same as why I don't post 'feminist' (ha) stuff on here. Or at least I don't post extreme amounts of it. ;)

I try to remember that as a woman, I'm always going to be a 'guest' of sosuave and try to respect that. That doesn't mean I'm not going to disagree with certain things, but obviously I'm not going to come on here preaching either.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Vincent
You are lacking of a sense of humor mam.
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Not lacking a sense of humor at all...I just don't find Gio to be at all humorous.
 
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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I think most women's forums would be too afraid to come and troll the DJ boards, because it would only be instigating the DJs to go troll THEIR boards.
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I wasn't talking about "women's" forums. I was talking about radical feminist forums. Big, big difference.
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Now that really hurts my feelings a whole lot.
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Sorry...I've always found inanity to be rather dull.
 
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Wyld, on a serious note...

Why didn't you just PM Giovanni and ask HIM about the thread instead of starting yet ANOTHER thread in Suggestions and Feedback?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Eternal
Wyld, on a serious note...

Why didn't you just PM Giovanni and ask HIM about the thread instead of starting yet ANOTHER thread in Suggestions and Feedback?
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Because then no one else would get to benefit from her wisdom. :rolleyes:
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
Wyld, on a serious note...

Why didn't you just PM Giovanni and ask HIM about the thread instead of starting yet ANOTHER thread in Suggestions and Feedback?
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Because I didn't want to...
 
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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Because I didn't want to...
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Sorry Sexy_Malibu, we are gonna have to strip your of your "Attention-Wh*re" title...We have a new winner.
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
Sorry Sexy_Malibu, we are gonna have to strip your of your "Attention-Wh*re" title...We have a new winner.
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Typical...can't come up with a logical response so call her an "Attention Wh*re".

:rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Typical...can't come up with a logical response so call her an "Attention Wh*re".

:rolleyes:
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Malibu already called HERSELF an AW, so you don't have a claim that I didn't come up with something "logical," your all high and mightyness. :rolleyes:
 
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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Okay, Eternal...
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That was Vincent. Geez, always thinking of me, huh?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Typical...can't come up with a logical response so call her an "Attention Wh*re".

:rolleyes:
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Originally posted by Eternal
Malibu already called HERSELF an AW, so you don't have a claim that I didn't come up with something "logical," your all high and mightyness. :rolleyes:
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I think what she meant was that instead of 'logically' responding to her 'legitimate and very serious' complaints, you're just dismissing her by calling her (Wyldfire) an attention wh*re.

However, I do think that calling Wyldfire an attention wh*re was a pretty logical conclusion. It's the same conclusion I came to (guess it takes one to know one ;)).
 
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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I think what she meant was that instead of 'logically' responding to her 'legitimate and very serious' complaints, you're just dismissing her by calling her (Wyldfire) an attention wh*re.

However, I do think that calling Wyldfire an attention wh*re was a pretty logical conclusion. It's the same conclusion I came to (guess it takes one to know one ;)).
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Thank you for clearing that up Sexy. Just think, that was settled without bashing me and Gio for saying something. Take notes Wyld.
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
And you said Gio wasn't funny...
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Gio isn't funny...and I wasn't trying to be.
 
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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Gio isn't funny...and I wasn't trying to be.
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Oh really? I guess you were being "Clever".

Or some either word like that I can't put my finger on... Clever seems so close, I think it even has the same amount of letters.

Oh well, I give up.
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
Thank you for clearing that up Sexy. Just think, that was settled without bashing me and Gio for saying something. Take notes Wyld.
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Oh ****. Did I forget to bash you guys! Sorry, my bad...

Um... oh yeah! And Eternal and Gio suck!!!

:p
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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