“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Why is "Traits of a Real DJ" not allowed as a discussion on the main forum?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I think what she meant was that instead of 'logically' responding to her 'legitimate and very serious' complaints, you're just dismissing her by calling her (Wyldfire) an attention wh*re.
However, I do think that calling Wyldfire an attention wh*re was a pretty logical conclusion. It's the same conclusion I came to (guess it takes one to know one).
Actually, you just view me as an "Attention Wh*re" because for some reason people (male and female alike) find me to be somewhat of a fascinating personality on any forum I post on. It's true that I tend to get attention, but I don't seek it.
You, on the other hand are likely only posting on these threads because you can't stand that fact that no one is flirting with you because they're arguing with me.
If I truly were an Attention Wh*re, I'd be flirting and I don't do that.
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Listen baby... you don't have to be ashamed of being an attention wh*re. Just embrace your attention wh*riness and accept it. You'll feel so much better. LOL.
Nah, but seriously. There are different kinds of attention wh*res and they vary in degree of attention wh*riness. You don't need to flirt to feed off attention. (Not all attention need be sexual).
You seem to me as the 'martyr' type of attention wh*re... one who gets her attention (be it positive or negative) by 'fighting against oppressors' and 'righting wrongs' and 'standing up for her beliefs'. (Translation: "b*tch b*tch b*tch, moan moan moan, whine whine whine look at me look at me").
I on the other hand, am more of your average attention wh*re. I enjoy people laughing at my jokes (even though I know they're not actually funny) and agreeing with my 'wonderful' insights... but really, when you think about it this way... most human beings - male or female - are attention wh*res, to some extent.
By this definition, Gio, Eternal, Vincent, EVERYONE on this site is somewhat of an attention wh*re. The difference is that they are (in this particular case) ACTUALLY RIGHT. Whereas you seem to just be b*tching, for the sake of b*tching.
You are the type of attention wh*re who thinks she is better than your average "I'm sexy! Look at my boobs!" attention wh*re because you seek attention for your 'intellect' and 'high moral code'. But we're really all just one in the same.
I'm not threatened by you getting your negative attention, nor do I think you're taking away from my 'flirt time'. (In fact, I don't think I've EVER 'fake-flirted' so much on sosuave as I have in YOUR silly threads! So really, you being a total idiot has actually HELPED my 'flirt time'). But I will admit that I am only posting on these threads because of you. It's just SOOOOOOO MUCH FUN! Part of me is like "oh god please shut up already!" and the other part is "This is the best entertainment I've had in weeks!"
Oh, I'm sorry our time is up. Would you like to schedule another session with Dr. Malibu for next week?
BZZZZZZZZZZZZT WRONG!
You dont have to flirt to be a slvt for attention. Admit it, you love the feedback you are getting here. Maybe it pisses you off, maybe it gets you off, but the fact is that you keep coming back for more....and that says a whole lot more than your complaints do, babygirl.
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Resisting arrest...20 years!
In this city, justice comes at a price, and that price is freedom!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.