"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Why is "Traits of a Real DJ" not allowed as a discussion on the main forum?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I think what she meant was that instead of 'logically' responding to her 'legitimate and very serious' complaints, you're just dismissing her by calling her (Wyldfire) an attention wh*re.
However, I do think that calling Wyldfire an attention wh*re was a pretty logical conclusion. It's the same conclusion I came to (guess it takes one to know one).
Actually, you just view me as an "Attention Wh*re" because for some reason people (male and female alike) find me to be somewhat of a fascinating personality on any forum I post on. It's true that I tend to get attention, but I don't seek it.
You, on the other hand are likely only posting on these threads because you can't stand that fact that no one is flirting with you because they're arguing with me.
If I truly were an Attention Wh*re, I'd be flirting and I don't do that.
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Listen baby... you don't have to be ashamed of being an attention wh*re. Just embrace your attention wh*riness and accept it. You'll feel so much better. LOL.
Nah, but seriously. There are different kinds of attention wh*res and they vary in degree of attention wh*riness. You don't need to flirt to feed off attention. (Not all attention need be sexual).
You seem to me as the 'martyr' type of attention wh*re... one who gets her attention (be it positive or negative) by 'fighting against oppressors' and 'righting wrongs' and 'standing up for her beliefs'. (Translation: "b*tch b*tch b*tch, moan moan moan, whine whine whine look at me look at me").
I on the other hand, am more of your average attention wh*re. I enjoy people laughing at my jokes (even though I know they're not actually funny) and agreeing with my 'wonderful' insights... but really, when you think about it this way... most human beings - male or female - are attention wh*res, to some extent.
By this definition, Gio, Eternal, Vincent, EVERYONE on this site is somewhat of an attention wh*re. The difference is that they are (in this particular case) ACTUALLY RIGHT. Whereas you seem to just be b*tching, for the sake of b*tching.
You are the type of attention wh*re who thinks she is better than your average "I'm sexy! Look at my boobs!" attention wh*re because you seek attention for your 'intellect' and 'high moral code'. But we're really all just one in the same.
I'm not threatened by you getting your negative attention, nor do I think you're taking away from my 'flirt time'. (In fact, I don't think I've EVER 'fake-flirted' so much on sosuave as I have in YOUR silly threads! So really, you being a total idiot has actually HELPED my 'flirt time'). But I will admit that I am only posting on these threads because of you. It's just SOOOOOOO MUCH FUN! Part of me is like "oh god please shut up already!" and the other part is "This is the best entertainment I've had in weeks!"
Oh, I'm sorry our time is up. Would you like to schedule another session with Dr. Malibu for next week?
BZZZZZZZZZZZZT WRONG!
You dont have to flirt to be a slvt for attention. Admit it, you love the feedback you are getting here. Maybe it pisses you off, maybe it gets you off, but the fact is that you keep coming back for more....and that says a whole lot more than your complaints do, babygirl.
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Resisting arrest...20 years!
In this city, justice comes at a price, and that price is freedom!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.