"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why is "Traits of a Real DJ" not allowed as a discussion on the main forum?

Sexy_Malibu

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I think most women's forums would be too afraid to come and troll the DJ boards, because it would only be instigating the DJs to go troll THEIR boards.

I enjoy this site, but I sure as hell wouldn't want you guys posting DJ **** on one of my other sites I go to. (It just wouldn't belong). Same as why I don't post 'feminist' (ha) stuff on here. Or at least I don't post extreme amounts of it. ;)

I try to remember that as a woman, I'm always going to be a 'guest' of sosuave and try to respect that. That doesn't mean I'm not going to disagree with certain things, but obviously I'm not going to come on here preaching either.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wyldfire

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Originally posted by Vincent
You are lacking of a sense of humor mam.
Not lacking a sense of humor at all...I just don't find Gio to be at all humorous.
 

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I think most women's forums would be too afraid to come and troll the DJ boards, because it would only be instigating the DJs to go troll THEIR boards.

I wasn't talking about "women's" forums. I was talking about radical feminist forums. Big, big difference.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Now that really hurts my feelings a whole lot.
Sorry...I've always found inanity to be rather dull.
 

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Wyld, on a serious note...

Why didn't you just PM Giovanni and ask HIM about the thread instead of starting yet ANOTHER thread in Suggestions and Feedback?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sexy_Malibu

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Originally posted by Eternal
Wyld, on a serious note...

Why didn't you just PM Giovanni and ask HIM about the thread instead of starting yet ANOTHER thread in Suggestions and Feedback?
Because then no one else would get to benefit from her wisdom. :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Eternal
Wyld, on a serious note...

Why didn't you just PM Giovanni and ask HIM about the thread instead of starting yet ANOTHER thread in Suggestions and Feedback?
Because I didn't want to...
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Because I didn't want to...
Sorry Sexy_Malibu, we are gonna have to strip your of your "Attention-Wh*re" title...We have a new winner.
 

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Originally posted by Eternal
Sorry Sexy_Malibu, we are gonna have to strip your of your "Attention-Wh*re" title...We have a new winner.
Typical...can't come up with a logical response so call her an "Attention Wh*re".

:rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Typical...can't come up with a logical response so call her an "Attention Wh*re".

:rolleyes:
Malibu already called HERSELF an AW, so you don't have a claim that I didn't come up with something "logical," your all high and mightyness. :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Okay, Eternal...
That was Vincent. Geez, always thinking of me, huh?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sexy_Malibu

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Typical...can't come up with a logical response so call her an "Attention Wh*re".

:rolleyes:
Originally posted by Eternal
Malibu already called HERSELF an AW, so you don't have a claim that I didn't come up with something "logical," your all high and mightyness. :rolleyes:
I think what she meant was that instead of 'logically' responding to her 'legitimate and very serious' complaints, you're just dismissing her by calling her (Wyldfire) an attention wh*re.

However, I do think that calling Wyldfire an attention wh*re was a pretty logical conclusion. It's the same conclusion I came to (guess it takes one to know one ;)).
 

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I think what she meant was that instead of 'logically' responding to her 'legitimate and very serious' complaints, you're just dismissing her by calling her (Wyldfire) an attention wh*re.

However, I do think that calling Wyldfire an attention wh*re was a pretty logical conclusion. It's the same conclusion I came to (guess it takes one to know one ;)).
Thank you for clearing that up Sexy. Just think, that was settled without bashing me and Gio for saying something. Take notes Wyld.
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
And you said Gio wasn't funny...
Gio isn't funny...and I wasn't trying to be.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Gio isn't funny...and I wasn't trying to be.
Oh really? I guess you were being "Clever".

Or some either word like that I can't put my finger on... Clever seems so close, I think it even has the same amount of letters.

Oh well, I give up.
 

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Originally posted by Eternal
Thank you for clearing that up Sexy. Just think, that was settled without bashing me and Gio for saying something. Take notes Wyld.
Oh ****. Did I forget to bash you guys! Sorry, my bad...

Um... oh yeah! And Eternal and Gio suck!!!

:p
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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