"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why is "Traits of a Real DJ" not allowed as a discussion on the main forum?

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I think most women's forums would be too afraid to come and troll the DJ boards, because it would only be instigating the DJs to go troll THEIR boards.

I enjoy this site, but I sure as hell wouldn't want you guys posting DJ **** on one of my other sites I go to. (It just wouldn't belong). Same as why I don't post 'feminist' (ha) stuff on here. Or at least I don't post extreme amounts of it. ;)

I try to remember that as a woman, I'm always going to be a 'guest' of sosuave and try to respect that. That doesn't mean I'm not going to disagree with certain things, but obviously I'm not going to come on here preaching either.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Vincent
You are lacking of a sense of humor mam.
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Not lacking a sense of humor at all...I just don't find Gio to be at all humorous.
 
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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I think most women's forums would be too afraid to come and troll the DJ boards, because it would only be instigating the DJs to go troll THEIR boards.
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I wasn't talking about "women's" forums. I was talking about radical feminist forums. Big, big difference.
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Now that really hurts my feelings a whole lot.
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Sorry...I've always found inanity to be rather dull.
 
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Wyld, on a serious note...

Why didn't you just PM Giovanni and ask HIM about the thread instead of starting yet ANOTHER thread in Suggestions and Feedback?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Eternal
Wyld, on a serious note...

Why didn't you just PM Giovanni and ask HIM about the thread instead of starting yet ANOTHER thread in Suggestions and Feedback?
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Because then no one else would get to benefit from her wisdom. :rolleyes:
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
Wyld, on a serious note...

Why didn't you just PM Giovanni and ask HIM about the thread instead of starting yet ANOTHER thread in Suggestions and Feedback?
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Because I didn't want to...
 
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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Because I didn't want to...
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Sorry Sexy_Malibu, we are gonna have to strip your of your "Attention-Wh*re" title...We have a new winner.
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
Sorry Sexy_Malibu, we are gonna have to strip your of your "Attention-Wh*re" title...We have a new winner.
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Typical...can't come up with a logical response so call her an "Attention Wh*re".

:rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Typical...can't come up with a logical response so call her an "Attention Wh*re".

:rolleyes:
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Malibu already called HERSELF an AW, so you don't have a claim that I didn't come up with something "logical," your all high and mightyness. :rolleyes:
 
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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Okay, Eternal...
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That was Vincent. Geez, always thinking of me, huh?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Typical...can't come up with a logical response so call her an "Attention Wh*re".

:rolleyes:
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Originally posted by Eternal
Malibu already called HERSELF an AW, so you don't have a claim that I didn't come up with something "logical," your all high and mightyness. :rolleyes:
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I think what she meant was that instead of 'logically' responding to her 'legitimate and very serious' complaints, you're just dismissing her by calling her (Wyldfire) an attention wh*re.

However, I do think that calling Wyldfire an attention wh*re was a pretty logical conclusion. It's the same conclusion I came to (guess it takes one to know one ;)).
 
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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I think what she meant was that instead of 'logically' responding to her 'legitimate and very serious' complaints, you're just dismissing her by calling her (Wyldfire) an attention wh*re.

However, I do think that calling Wyldfire an attention wh*re was a pretty logical conclusion. It's the same conclusion I came to (guess it takes one to know one ;)).
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Thank you for clearing that up Sexy. Just think, that was settled without bashing me and Gio for saying something. Take notes Wyld.
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
And you said Gio wasn't funny...
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Gio isn't funny...and I wasn't trying to be.
 
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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Gio isn't funny...and I wasn't trying to be.
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Oh really? I guess you were being "Clever".

Or some either word like that I can't put my finger on... Clever seems so close, I think it even has the same amount of letters.

Oh well, I give up.
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
Thank you for clearing that up Sexy. Just think, that was settled without bashing me and Gio for saying something. Take notes Wyld.
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Oh ****. Did I forget to bash you guys! Sorry, my bad...

Um... oh yeah! And Eternal and Gio suck!!!

:p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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