"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why is "Traits of a Real DJ" not allowed as a discussion on the main forum?

Sexy_Malibu

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I think most women's forums would be too afraid to come and troll the DJ boards, because it would only be instigating the DJs to go troll THEIR boards.

I enjoy this site, but I sure as hell wouldn't want you guys posting DJ **** on one of my other sites I go to. (It just wouldn't belong). Same as why I don't post 'feminist' (ha) stuff on here. Or at least I don't post extreme amounts of it. ;)

I try to remember that as a woman, I'm always going to be a 'guest' of sosuave and try to respect that. That doesn't mean I'm not going to disagree with certain things, but obviously I'm not going to come on here preaching either.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Vincent
You are lacking of a sense of humor mam.
Not lacking a sense of humor at all...I just don't find Gio to be at all humorous.
 

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I think most women's forums would be too afraid to come and troll the DJ boards, because it would only be instigating the DJs to go troll THEIR boards.

I wasn't talking about "women's" forums. I was talking about radical feminist forums. Big, big difference.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Now that really hurts my feelings a whole lot.
Sorry...I've always found inanity to be rather dull.
 

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Wyld, on a serious note...

Why didn't you just PM Giovanni and ask HIM about the thread instead of starting yet ANOTHER thread in Suggestions and Feedback?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Eternal
Wyld, on a serious note...

Why didn't you just PM Giovanni and ask HIM about the thread instead of starting yet ANOTHER thread in Suggestions and Feedback?
Because then no one else would get to benefit from her wisdom. :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Eternal
Wyld, on a serious note...

Why didn't you just PM Giovanni and ask HIM about the thread instead of starting yet ANOTHER thread in Suggestions and Feedback?
Because I didn't want to...
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Because I didn't want to...
Sorry Sexy_Malibu, we are gonna have to strip your of your "Attention-Wh*re" title...We have a new winner.
 

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Originally posted by Eternal
Sorry Sexy_Malibu, we are gonna have to strip your of your "Attention-Wh*re" title...We have a new winner.
Typical...can't come up with a logical response so call her an "Attention Wh*re".

:rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Typical...can't come up with a logical response so call her an "Attention Wh*re".

:rolleyes:
Malibu already called HERSELF an AW, so you don't have a claim that I didn't come up with something "logical," your all high and mightyness. :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Okay, Eternal...
That was Vincent. Geez, always thinking of me, huh?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sexy_Malibu

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Typical...can't come up with a logical response so call her an "Attention Wh*re".

:rolleyes:
Originally posted by Eternal
Malibu already called HERSELF an AW, so you don't have a claim that I didn't come up with something "logical," your all high and mightyness. :rolleyes:
I think what she meant was that instead of 'logically' responding to her 'legitimate and very serious' complaints, you're just dismissing her by calling her (Wyldfire) an attention wh*re.

However, I do think that calling Wyldfire an attention wh*re was a pretty logical conclusion. It's the same conclusion I came to (guess it takes one to know one ;)).
 

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I think what she meant was that instead of 'logically' responding to her 'legitimate and very serious' complaints, you're just dismissing her by calling her (Wyldfire) an attention wh*re.

However, I do think that calling Wyldfire an attention wh*re was a pretty logical conclusion. It's the same conclusion I came to (guess it takes one to know one ;)).
Thank you for clearing that up Sexy. Just think, that was settled without bashing me and Gio for saying something. Take notes Wyld.
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
And you said Gio wasn't funny...
Gio isn't funny...and I wasn't trying to be.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Gio isn't funny...and I wasn't trying to be.
Oh really? I guess you were being "Clever".

Or some either word like that I can't put my finger on... Clever seems so close, I think it even has the same amount of letters.

Oh well, I give up.
 

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Originally posted by Eternal
Thank you for clearing that up Sexy. Just think, that was settled without bashing me and Gio for saying something. Take notes Wyld.
Oh ****. Did I forget to bash you guys! Sorry, my bad...

Um... oh yeah! And Eternal and Gio suck!!!

:p
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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