“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Why "Hi I'm Joe Shmo. Whats your name" doesnt work

dirtyvibe

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It will only work on a good looking girl if you're physically attractive.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dirtyvibe

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Originally posted by DJinT
Thank you captain obvious.
it should also work with social proof arround you if youre ugly
 

Nighthawk

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It wouldn't work for me because my name isn't Joe Shmo.

Actually if you actually introduced yourself as 'Joe Shmo' you would at least get some interest, more if it actually was your real name. Bizarrely, my brother and I have the same first name and it drives girls crazy how this could be (we don't tell them, naturally). So, er, change your name to Joe Shmo and get laid!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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While I agree that it's not the best opener to use, it can still work.

It really depends on your projected confidence level. If it's high enough almost anything can work.

Mini-fr to demonstrate.

I was in a bar playing darts, spotted a girl that interested me in a group of guys/girls.

I walked up, said hello and introduced myself to all of them and got their names.

Turned to the girl I was interested in, said 'let's go play pool' and walked away.

She followed, we played some pool. I got her number and we ended up going out for a while.

My state of mind at the time was that the answer was a given. I didn't ask her to play pool, or ask for her number I made a statement and fully believed in the result.

It was actually an eye-opener for me in a way, since it was the first time I've tried just staying in a strong state of mind rather than using more scripted openers and acting disinterested.
 

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I totally agree projecting confidence is a major part. Once you master the confidence part (I am still working on it- but do pretty good) you will see that what you say play a smaller and smaller part in the actual pick up.

Girls find confidence very attractive.
 

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It doesn't work because you can't open with an IoI. This is a DLV that places the girl above you and makes her the prize.

In girl logic it's about the same level as a compliment about her looks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by dirtyvibe
It will only work on a good looking girl if you're physically attractive.
You can pretty much say whatever you want to a girl and it will work if you know what you're doing. I told a girl today that we should go do some karaoke and sing some backstreet boys.. She was lovin me.
 
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