"WHY don't I want him???"

[bigjohnson]

Women crave attention, drama is just one way they learn to attract what they crave.

 

[jophil28]

Women crave attention, drama is just one way they learn to attract what they crave.

Exactly !
Dramatics and faked up hysterics are nothing more that attention seeking tactics. Pathetic isn't it ?

 

[jophil28]

Women crave attention, drama is just one way they learn to attract what they crave.

Let me tell you a story about this topic.
A few years ago I was in a short term relationship with a woman who turned out to be nuts. When I met her, I read her as intelligent and bright and interesting -she was a teacher.
Anyways, our relationship became a rollercoaster and one night ,three months in, she silently followed me to our club and spotted me dancing with another woman- just dancing !
My G/f stormed out with her nose in the air and I was stupid enough to go after her. We talked for an hour, but she decided to end it there in the carpark, and still claimed that she was NOT angry ! Two weeks later she text me "to talk ". WE spent 5 hours in the coffee shop making up, and then, as we were walking to our cars she said " What would you do if you saw me driving along with another man ? " I was bewildered. I said somethink like ." I would assume that you were seeing him behind my back and I would not call you again. " She kind of smirked as if she had scored some points.. WTF !

NOw, two years later ( via this forum) I understand how hard women work to set themselves up as the PRIZE and how hard they manipulate and play mind games to gain the upper hand and to draw attention to themselves.
Of course all their adolescent efforts are counterproductive and ultimately self-defeating BUT is is what they do, even at my age.

 

[Last Man Standing]

She is pressured to want him because others have approved of him - she is looking for something else that he doesn't have!!

Jophil, your girl had reason to be upset - If I saw my girl at a club I would leave her right there!

 

[Jitterbug]

Man, if dancing is enough ground for that, then I'm in deep sh!t. I go to dance clubs regularly and dance with at least a dozen different women a night. Some of them are attached and their boys usually dance with other women right next to me, or sit down and watch us swing it. I think that woman was overreacting.

 

[jophil28]

Jophil, your girl had reason to be upset - If I saw my girl at a club I would leave her right there!

LMS this is the same woman who was still living in a mansion that her ex fiance bought for them to live in as a married couple. They broke up as a couple two years before I met her, but they continued to live together (seperate rooms, so she said)
She was also casually dating two other guys behind my back who were telling her that they both "loved her".. I was her sex supply BUT she demanded that I not have expectations ..
Her fav saying was,'' I want an exclusive relationship with you Jophil but I don't want to feel like we are a couple." WTF ?

I got played.

 

[Last Man Standing]

LMS this is the same woman who was still living in a mansion that her ex fiance bought for them to live in as a married couple. They broke up as a couple two years before I met her, but they continued to live together (seperate rooms, so she said)
She was also casually dating two other guys behind my back who were telling her that they both "loved her".. I was her sex supply BUT she demanded that I not have expectations ..
Her fav saying was,'' I want an exclusive relationship with you Jophil but I don't want to feel like we are a couple." WTF ?

I got played.

Haha, OK, you did good then! Hors want exclusivity without exclusiveness!

 

[jophil28]

Thanks LMS, I like that - Im gonna stick it up on my new Maytag side by side fridge and read it daily.. Sometimes you show a nice turn of phrase !

BTW troops -it is hot down here -beach weather and bikinis on parade. Eating fresh fish and mangoes and dancing Salsa at night.. tough gig !

 

[Last Man Standing]

Jophil, let me expound on that... by the way...it's going on below zero here and snow covered! Australia is a kind place!

Hors, not women, as you know, are branch monkeys, meaning that they'll seek another pimp before they let go of their current pimp! They swing - because they hate to be alone, but yet when men swing, for our own interest, then they call us "Dogs"! In other words, they want exclusivity when it suits them!! Know who you are with!!!

 

[iqqi]

Haha at Des.