Why do men on sosuave want to get married?

[Lookatu]

Welcome to the "assault, rape, and murder are free speech, but words are genocide" generation.

Ok that's another pet peeve of mine. To lessen the harshness of rape, I've noticed everything is being lumped into a "sexual assault" these days by the media. Doesn't matter if you were raped, fondled, cat called, etc. It's all sexual assault. So now when we hear it, we are left to guess the severity of it and thus may have less sympathy or place less seriousness to it. Because clearly someone that got their booty grabbed in a club isn't going to be as traumatized as someone that was raped. [rant off]

 

[Craig Dates]

Hahaha, you're still around stalking me since 2019 huh?

All that migraine attacks and BP increases you're been blaming on just the fvcking rain might just disappear if you learn some anger management skills.

BTW did you take my advice and registered with Loveshack.org?

Cry babies would fit in nicely there.

Everything is relative my fine my alternative life friend. You can say a lot of things about me, but at least I am not a closet homosexual such as yourself. Nothing wrong with it. You should just accept it and embrace it.

 

[Spaz]

Everything is relative my fine my alternative life friend. You can say a lot of things about me, but at least I am not a closet homosexual such as yourself. Nothing wrong with it. You should just accept it and embrace it.

In all of ur attempts to get my attention, in almost all of it, there's always homosexuality mentioned by YOU alone.

It's become a recurring theme for you.

Do you hv some perverted fantasies about homosexuality?

Just so you know, although this is a forum for males, it's exclusively abt MALE - FEMALE dynamics.

Go and join up some faggot forum if u r so inclined in that direction and stop trying to recruit me or other members here.

 

[Suave88]

Black Dragon says that about 90-95% of guys want to settle down by the time they hit their late 30's-40's.

It's apparently an extreme minority of men that want to stay single and play the field forever.

I don't mind being single and messing around all my life, but I regret many of my affairs did not last long enough. On my counting I could have been married 10 times in a 20 years span, beginning at the age of 21. Anyway, I am not on sosuave for this. This marriage topic is not a one I care about.

 

[Craig Dates]

In all of ur attempts to get my attention, in almost all of it, there's always homosexuality mentioned by YOU alone.

It's become a recurring theme for you.

Do you hv some perverted fantasies about homosexuality?

Just so you know, although this is a forum for males, it's exclusively abt MALE - FEMALE dynamics.

Go and join up some faggot forum if u r so inclined in that direction and stop trying to recruit me or other members here.

Did you complete your transition to the other team yet? I think you got it wrong. You are the "faggot" since you are the one who enjoys strange encounters with transexuals and guys. Perhaps the English translator you are using isn't the greatest in the Philippines.

 

[Roober]

In a traditional sense, marriage provides stability and permanence. Having a large gathering in front of many people, then putting it into law or religion provides that layer of permanence. That is the goal anyway...

The civil rights movement and welfare state basically ****-canned that whole idea and now marriage is no different than getting a new car. I get why people do it, but I can't say that I would do it again or recommend it to anyone I know. I always fear the complacency that could potentially manifest as a result of that comfortable permanence.

 

[Spaz]

In a traditional sense, marriage provides stability and permanence. Having a large gathering in front of many people, then putting it into law or religion provides that layer of permanence. That is the goal anyway...

The civil rights movement and welfare state basically ****-canned that whole idea and now marriage is no different than getting a new car. I get why people do it, but I can't say that I would do it again or recommend it to anyone I know. I always fear the complacency that could potentially manifest as a result of that comfortable permanence.

Marriage is important when one thinks abt one's future offspring.

If you got a daughter, she will need her mother to learn her manipulation skills and a father to lay down the law.

If you got a son, he will need his mother's overprotective shield when he's a toddler, understand the meaning of love through her and from his father the ways of men.

It's always incumbent upon a man to lead his family AND IT STARTS from choosing the right kind of women to start a family THAT wants to be led by him.

The problem that I see, for most part, is that many men are not up to that task.

Maybe because of that, many policies by the state was created to circumvent the generally poor leadership of men.

 

[Murk]

Thing is...around here there isn’t much of a voice to tout these advantages. The great men here such as Colussus, Amante Silvestre, Casanova, and others found wives, married and are not contributing here any more. They are out doing life and enjoying quality outcomes including quality relationships. And that’s a good thing.

HOLD UP

Amante has a wife??

 

[BeExcellent]

HOLD UP

Amante has a wife??

He does. I think he got married within this past year. Search the site. He made a thread about it. Nice to see you around here again by the way

BE

 

[jaymbrs]

HOLD UP

Amante has a wife??

Not sure if he does anymore. She logged in under his name and started posting some insane things about how SoSuave is ruining their marriage. Mods deleted them though after she admitted it was her posting and not him. A very entertaining moment in SoSuave.

 

[BeExcellent]

Not sure if he does anymore. She logged in under his name and started posting some insane things about how SoSuave is ruining their marriage. Mods deleted them though after she admitted it was her posting and not him. A very entertaining moment in SoSuave.

Wow I missed all that drama. I do hope Amante is well whatever he is doing. His advice was solid.

 

[bcude]

Not sure if he does anymore. She logged in under his name and started posting some insane things about how SoSuave is ruining their marriage. Mods deleted them though after she admitted it was her posting and not him. A very entertaining moment in SoSuave.

Ahh and ALL of his content was removed from SoSuave. Weird, but apparently 'personal decision'.

 

[BeExcellent]

Ahh and ALL of his content was removed from SoSuave. Weird, but apparently 'personal decision'.

Bummer. Kinda like Bradd80. That’s too bad.

 

[RickTheToad]

Not sure if he does anymore. She logged in under his name and started posting some insane things about how SoSuave is ruining their marriage. Mods deleted them though after she admitted it was her posting and not him. A very entertaining moment in SoSuave.

Told him not to marry. People put on masks until they get what they want. Good dude, but made a very bad decision. Very bad.

 

[Spaz]

Let's not talk abt Amante, he's not here to defend himself.

He's contributed much and the very least we all could do is allow him some dignity.

 

[RickTheToad]

Let's not talk abt Amante, he's not here to defend himself.

He's contributed much and the very least we all could do is allow him some dignity.

Didn't say anything wrong about the dude. Just made a statement that I did warn about this.

 

[Spaz]

Didn't say anything wrong about the dude. Just made a statement that I did warn about this.

Wasn't directed at you.

It's just a reminder for the rest, who might.

His wife might be stalking the forum, you know how women are and this will give unnecessary heartache to him.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Wasn't directed at you.

It's just a reminder for the rest, who might.

His wife might be stalking the forum, you know how women are and this will give unnecessary heartache to him.

I read it as it happened that morning and my gut instinct told me maybe it was the little one....maybe she overheard them arguing 'discussing' and he had his phone or computer open and she went on to try to 'save their marriage'.
When I was little, 8 or 9 yrs old, I might have done the same thing....lie and pretend to be the wife to embarass/shame in the hopes that Dad wouldn't log back on ever again.
If she really didn't understand that Amant e her father, was faithful and in love with his new wife/daughter's new stepmother.

She was a recovering sick little girl don't forget. When you're a kid, hearing parents argue can feel like the end of the world was near.

But hey, could be wrong.

 

[Murk]

He does. I think he got married within this past year. Search the site. He made a thread about it. Nice to see you around here again by the way

BE

Thanks, I think we come and go depending on our life situation but this forum definitely has its uses throughout life. Great red-pilled sounding board away from friends/family.

Not sure if he does anymore. She logged in under his name and started posting some insane things about how SoSuave is ruining their marriage. Mods deleted them though after she admitted it was her posting and not him. A very entertaining moment in SoSuave.

I have no words... I typed a good post about the timelines meaning he has jumped straight to marriage and not qualified this woman plus the above psycho deceptive behavior and red flags.

Let that be a lesson to everyone, a bit disappointed actually.

 

[RickTheToad]

Marriage is important when one thinks abt one's future offspring.

This part is unwise for any HNW person. The chances of divorce are just too high. Imagine having to start over at 50 with zero or even less than zero? I do not see how a piece of paper makes two people better parents. One usually files for divorce once the kids turn 18 anyway. Now, if you mean religious, then I can possibly understand; just no State sanctioned license.