Suave88
Master Don Juan
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Let the old days be and not all men were king and married many women and had many children. A king is a man, but not all men were king.Back in the day, Kings had several mistresses and produced many children with different women. Men were secure ones and women were insecure. Now, because of Disney and the powers that be, it’s the men who are insecure and the women who are secure. It’s the men who want wives and families and it’s the women who want education and freedom.
So I am wondering why some of the men on this site are so eager to get a LTR or a wife? Other than image and “fitting in”, what is the reason to legally commit to one woman for the rest of your life?
Remember, if you legally commit to ONE woman, you cannot leave without heavy emotional, financial, and legal costs. You cannot have sex with any other woman without heavy emotional, financial, and legal costs.
I’m curious of the responses.
I am not sure how and why you relate the old days and Kings with men on sosuave.
As far as being secure and unsecured based on wanting to marry or not, do not based your opinion on what you have learned from movies. No one has ever made a movie about the life of poor men during feudalism. Probably the only poor man was Jesus Christ and he died too young and did not married. Long time ago, many men were soldiers, servants, or peasants some marry, some not.
Also, I don't know about Disney and the power that be, you dont mentioned any power, so your statement is vague, I assume it is based on your life experience.
Now, Your believe that women dont want to get marry and have family comes from you and you and only you, and your experience. We are different from each other in many ways while being similar. You look at life from a different spectrum than me. Your statement that men want to marry and have family while women want education and freedom is unfounded.
So after reading your statement I come to the last paragraph of your post where you asked why some man on sosuave wants to get marry and commit to a LTR. This question makes me believe you are tying to find out who is married and who is not on sosuave, you also want to know why to commit to a LTR. I am wondering if you are a female, because whether you want to marry or not is a question you can only answer.
Wihout telling whether I am married or not, and regardless I will want to marry, and or I understand your question and share your point of view and the point of view of other members, I will tell you my opinion. The fact that you believe some members on so suave want to get married is not related to a change in times and society, but fate. Do you believe in fate, made by you or destiny? I never set out to be like this. I am not saying how or implaing in anyway enough for you to draw a conclusion. My life took turns every so once in times, I managed to date and have girlfriends, but I was not always successful and dated the person I liked, but the women who chose me and was available.
Sometimes, I did not want to marry and some times I wanted to marry, but not all fit quite well. So if someone on sosuave wants to marry could be because he has spinned too many plates and now found she and she is his girl, the girl of his dreams, and he wants to have a family, he is mature and simply wants a family and wants to have kids. Now, this doesn't mean he is the only who wants to marry. Marry is complememtary action, it cannot take place wihout the other person consent and wish, in this case, the female companion. So if you notice or have noticed men on so suave wanting to marry and have a family is because you are simply looking at this forum and drawing conclusions based on some of us. This does not mean that women want freedom or education and forget about marriage and family, it only means you see it that way.
Based on my perception and life experience, I believe most women want to marry and have family, not men as you believe.
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