mandalay_noodles
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
why are women allowed on this forum?
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
TheProspect
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Sounds a bit like a loaded question, but I'll bite...
Everyone is welcome on this forum, provided they follow the Forum Rules.
There have been a handful of female members here over the years, some of whom made contributions to this forum that are valued by many of the male members here. These male members often found the content and advice from a red-pilled female perspective quite insightful and useful, and that in of itself is sufficient reason as to why women are allowed on this forum.
Two noteworthy female posters whose content is generally well received by male members include @BeExcellent and @penkitten.
That being said, there are indeed females who do join this forum and ultimately offer up little to no value at all (and quite frankly it tends to be the majority of them). But having little to no value to offer the forum is often true for MANY of the male members who join as well...
Both males and females have contributed quality content to this forum, although there is a minority of men here who automatically become close-minded anytime they read a post from a female. That's fine. It's okay to disagree with a female on this forum, as long as it's done so respectfully.
Everyone is welcome on this forum, provided they follow the Forum Rules.
There have been a handful of female members here over the years, some of whom made contributions to this forum that are valued by many of the male members here. These male members often found the content and advice from a red-pilled female perspective quite insightful and useful, and that in of itself is sufficient reason as to why women are allowed on this forum.
Two noteworthy female posters whose content is generally well received by male members include @BeExcellent and @penkitten.
That being said, there are indeed females who do join this forum and ultimately offer up little to no value at all (and quite frankly it tends to be the majority of them). But having little to no value to offer the forum is often true for MANY of the male members who join as well...
Both males and females have contributed quality content to this forum, although there is a minority of men here who automatically become close-minded anytime they read a post from a female. That's fine. It's okay to disagree with a female on this forum, as long as it's done so respectfully.
The Duke
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Why not? The one and only regular female poster we have is a valuable asset to this forum.
Most that do come here don't last long.
On the rare occasion that a female poster causes drama, I will do my best to put heat on her azz to push her out.
Most that do come here don't last long.
On the rare occasion that a female poster causes drama, I will do my best to put heat on her azz to push her out.
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BeExcellent
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From the old lady:
Honestly I do my level best to give good insights. Sometimes I'm on a tangent, sometimes its an essay, and I'm 55 so I'm a generation or 2 older than many of the men here but I try and relate things from my father's wisdom, my experience as a hot girl in nightlife (including being married to a nightclub owner), and give advice that is practical & useful and based on life experience (my own and of men I know who are successful with women).
I've seen what works & what doesn't over the years in social interactions and relationships, so I offer a perspective. I can't speak for all women, nor do I try to, I'm just a voice from another point of view.
Honestly I do my level best to give good insights. Sometimes I'm on a tangent, sometimes its an essay, and I'm 55 so I'm a generation or 2 older than many of the men here but I try and relate things from my father's wisdom, my experience as a hot girl in nightlife (including being married to a nightclub owner), and give advice that is practical & useful and based on life experience (my own and of men I know who are successful with women).
I've seen what works & what doesn't over the years in social interactions and relationships, so I offer a perspective. I can't speak for all women, nor do I try to, I'm just a voice from another point of view.
BillyPilgrim
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If you can filter out the horn-tooting BE has some good insights.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mandalay_noodles
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what is be
Michael Chief
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Why WOULDN'T women be allowed on a forum dedicated to the topic of women? One of the seduction community's greatest "gurus," Zan Perrion, has said that he learned everything he knows from listening to women. Sure, that oftentimes leads to getting bad advice, but learn how to listen the right way, ignore any obviously misandrist stuff, and you'll find gold.
The real group that shouldn't be allowed here are the incels or blackpillers. Their views are antithetical to improving your seduction skills.
The real group that shouldn't be allowed here are the incels or blackpillers. Their views are antithetical to improving your seduction skills.
Millard Fillmore
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So I can have a girlfriend
mandalay_noodles
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crazy you’ve been here for 20 years
SW15
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@BeExcellent has been the primary female poster in the time I've been here. I'd consider her an asset to this forum as well, even when I have disagreed with her.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.