mandalay_noodles
Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 24, 2024
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
what is beIf you can filter out the horn-tooting BE has some good insights.
crazy you’ve been here for 20 yearsWhy WOULDN'T women be allowed on a forum dedicated to the topic of women? One of the seduction community's greatest "gurus," Zan Perrion, has said that he learned everything he knows from listening to women. Sure, that oftentimes leads to getting bad advice, but learn how to listen the right way, ignore any obviously misandrist stuff, and you'll find gold.
The real group that shouldn't be allowed here are the incels or blackpillers. Their views are antithetical to improving your seduction skills.
Two noteworthy female posters whose content is generally well received by male members include @BeExcellent and @penkitten.
@BeExcellent has been the primary female poster in the time I've been here. I'd consider her an asset to this forum as well, even when I have disagreed with her.The one and only regular female poster we have is a valuable asset to this forum.
Most that do come here don't last long.
On the rare occasion that a female poster causes drama, I will do my best to put heat on her azz to push her out.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.