"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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why are women allowed on this forum?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheProspect

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Sounds a bit like a loaded question, but I'll bite...

Everyone is welcome on this forum, provided they follow the Forum Rules.

There have been a handful of female members here over the years, some of whom made contributions to this forum that are valued by many of the male members here. These male members often found the content and advice from a red-pilled female perspective quite insightful and useful, and that in of itself is sufficient reason as to why women are allowed on this forum.

Two noteworthy female posters whose content is generally well received by male members include @BeExcellent and @penkitten.

That being said, there are indeed females who do join this forum and ultimately offer up little to no value at all (and quite frankly it tends to be the majority of them). But having little to no value to offer the forum is often true for MANY of the male members who join as well...

Both males and females have contributed quality content to this forum, although there is a minority of men here who automatically become close-minded anytime they read a post from a female. That's fine. It's okay to disagree with a female on this forum, as long as it's done so respectfully.
 

The Duke

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Why not? The one and only regular female poster we have is a valuable asset to this forum.
Most that do come here don't last long.

On the rare occasion that a female poster causes drama, I will do my best to put heat on her azz to push her out.
 
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BeExcellent

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From the old lady:

Honestly I do my level best to give good insights. Sometimes I'm on a tangent, sometimes its an essay, and I'm 55 so I'm a generation or 2 older than many of the men here but I try and relate things from my father's wisdom, my experience as a hot girl in nightlife (including being married to a nightclub owner), and give advice that is practical & useful and based on life experience (my own and of men I know who are successful with women).

I've seen what works & what doesn't over the years in social interactions and relationships, so I offer a perspective. I can't speak for all women, nor do I try to, I'm just a voice from another point of view.
 

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If you can filter out the horn-tooting BE has some good insights.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why WOULDN'T women be allowed on a forum dedicated to the topic of women? One of the seduction community's greatest "gurus," Zan Perrion, has said that he learned everything he knows from listening to women. Sure, that oftentimes leads to getting bad advice, but learn how to listen the right way, ignore any obviously misandrist stuff, and you'll find gold.

The real group that shouldn't be allowed here are the incels or blackpillers. Their views are antithetical to improving your seduction skills.
 

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Why WOULDN'T women be allowed on a forum dedicated to the topic of women? One of the seduction community's greatest "gurus," Zan Perrion, has said that he learned everything he knows from listening to women. Sure, that oftentimes leads to getting bad advice, but learn how to listen the right way, ignore any obviously misandrist stuff, and you'll find gold.

The real group that shouldn't be allowed here are the incels or blackpillers. Their views are antithetical to improving your seduction skills.
crazy you’ve been here for 20 years
 

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Two noteworthy female posters whose content is generally well received by male members include @BeExcellent and @penkitten.
The one and only regular female poster we have is a valuable asset to this forum.
Most that do come here don't last long.

On the rare occasion that a female poster causes drama, I will do my best to put heat on her azz to push her out.
@BeExcellent has been the primary female poster in the time I've been here. I'd consider her an asset to this forum as well, even when I have disagreed with her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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