mandalay_noodles
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
why are women allowed on this forum?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
TheProspect
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Sounds a bit like a loaded question, but I'll bite...
Everyone is welcome on this forum, provided they follow the Forum Rules.
There have been a handful of female members here over the years, some of whom made contributions to this forum that are valued by many of the male members here. These male members often found the content and advice from a red-pilled female perspective quite insightful and useful, and that in of itself is sufficient reason as to why women are allowed on this forum.
Two noteworthy female posters whose content is generally well received by male members include @BeExcellent and @penkitten.
That being said, there are indeed females who do join this forum and ultimately offer up little to no value at all (and quite frankly it tends to be the majority of them). But having little to no value to offer the forum is often true for MANY of the male members who join as well...
Both males and females have contributed quality content to this forum, although there is a minority of men here who automatically become close-minded anytime they read a post from a female. That's fine. It's okay to disagree with a female on this forum, as long as it's done so respectfully.
Everyone is welcome on this forum, provided they follow the Forum Rules.
There have been a handful of female members here over the years, some of whom made contributions to this forum that are valued by many of the male members here. These male members often found the content and advice from a red-pilled female perspective quite insightful and useful, and that in of itself is sufficient reason as to why women are allowed on this forum.
Two noteworthy female posters whose content is generally well received by male members include @BeExcellent and @penkitten.
That being said, there are indeed females who do join this forum and ultimately offer up little to no value at all (and quite frankly it tends to be the majority of them). But having little to no value to offer the forum is often true for MANY of the male members who join as well...
Both males and females have contributed quality content to this forum, although there is a minority of men here who automatically become close-minded anytime they read a post from a female. That's fine. It's okay to disagree with a female on this forum, as long as it's done so respectfully.
The Duke
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Why not? The one and only regular female poster we have is a valuable asset to this forum.
Most that do come here don't last long.
On the rare occasion that a female poster causes drama, I will do my best to put heat on her azz to push her out.
Most that do come here don't last long.
On the rare occasion that a female poster causes drama, I will do my best to put heat on her azz to push her out.
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BeExcellent
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From the old lady:
Honestly I do my level best to give good insights. Sometimes I'm on a tangent, sometimes its an essay, and I'm 55 so I'm a generation or 2 older than many of the men here but I try and relate things from my father's wisdom, my experience as a hot girl in nightlife (including being married to a nightclub owner), and give advice that is practical & useful and based on life experience (my own and of men I know who are successful with women).
I've seen what works & what doesn't over the years in social interactions and relationships, so I offer a perspective. I can't speak for all women, nor do I try to, I'm just a voice from another point of view.
Honestly I do my level best to give good insights. Sometimes I'm on a tangent, sometimes its an essay, and I'm 55 so I'm a generation or 2 older than many of the men here but I try and relate things from my father's wisdom, my experience as a hot girl in nightlife (including being married to a nightclub owner), and give advice that is practical & useful and based on life experience (my own and of men I know who are successful with women).
I've seen what works & what doesn't over the years in social interactions and relationships, so I offer a perspective. I can't speak for all women, nor do I try to, I'm just a voice from another point of view.
BillyPilgrim
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If you can filter out the horn-tooting BE has some good insights.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mandalay_noodles
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what is be
Michael Chief
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Why WOULDN'T women be allowed on a forum dedicated to the topic of women? One of the seduction community's greatest "gurus," Zan Perrion, has said that he learned everything he knows from listening to women. Sure, that oftentimes leads to getting bad advice, but learn how to listen the right way, ignore any obviously misandrist stuff, and you'll find gold.
The real group that shouldn't be allowed here are the incels or blackpillers. Their views are antithetical to improving your seduction skills.
The real group that shouldn't be allowed here are the incels or blackpillers. Their views are antithetical to improving your seduction skills.
Millard Fillmore
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So I can have a girlfriend
mandalay_noodles
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crazy you’ve been here for 20 years
SW15
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@BeExcellent has been the primary female poster in the time I've been here. I'd consider her an asset to this forum as well, even when I have disagreed with her.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.