sevbucmash
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how many trips per day you do?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Who else is uber?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
BillyPilgrim
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I'm a boober. About 12 motorboats a day.
BillyPilgrim
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You ride the horse till it falls over.
sevbucmash
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$150 - $250 per night per 11 hour shift, from 7 pm until 5 something, before crowd changes from party to hustle and bustle. 1 to 1.4 fuel tanks.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Travel memoir21
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sounds like decent cash, Speaking of which, I think I need to order a Uber or lyft where I'm at...I can't really drive out here so I take the bus or hire a driver to get to places especially on dates.
MatureDJ
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That's like $18/hr - is that after deducting for mileage (total cost, including depreciation, etc.)?
Bible_Belt
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Minimum wage is $15/hr in Illinois. Burger King advertises 18. Retail is 20. Working outside is 25. In rural areas downstate, a trailer rents for 500 a month. It's not a bad place to be poor.
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sevbucmash
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That's all status based. Life and pay improves as you progress from blue to gold and then higher gold and platinum.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.