sevbucmash
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how many trips per day you do?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Who else is uber?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BillyPilgrim
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I'm a boober. About 12 motorboats a day.
BillyPilgrim
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You ride the horse till it falls over.
sevbucmash
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$150 - $250 per night per 11 hour shift, from 7 pm until 5 something, before crowd changes from party to hustle and bustle. 1 to 1.4 fuel tanks.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Travel memoir21
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sounds like decent cash, Speaking of which, I think I need to order a Uber or lyft where I'm at...I can't really drive out here so I take the bus or hire a driver to get to places especially on dates.
MatureDJ
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That's like $18/hr - is that after deducting for mileage (total cost, including depreciation, etc.)?
Bible_Belt
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Minimum wage is $15/hr in Illinois. Burger King advertises 18. Retail is 20. Working outside is 25. In rural areas downstate, a trailer rents for 500 a month. It's not a bad place to be poor.
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sevbucmash
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That's all status based. Life and pay improves as you progress from blue to gold and then higher gold and platinum.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.