sevbucmash
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how many trips per day you do?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Who else is uber?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
BillyPilgrim
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I'm a boober. About 12 motorboats a day.
BillyPilgrim
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You ride the horse till it falls over.
sevbucmash
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$150 - $250 per night per 11 hour shift, from 7 pm until 5 something, before crowd changes from party to hustle and bustle. 1 to 1.4 fuel tanks.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Travel memoir21
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sounds like decent cash, Speaking of which, I think I need to order a Uber or lyft where I'm at...I can't really drive out here so I take the bus or hire a driver to get to places especially on dates.
MatureDJ
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That's like $18/hr - is that after deducting for mileage (total cost, including depreciation, etc.)?
Bible_Belt
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Minimum wage is $15/hr in Illinois. Burger King advertises 18. Retail is 20. Working outside is 25. In rural areas downstate, a trailer rents for 500 a month. It's not a bad place to be poor.
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sevbucmash
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That's all status based. Life and pay improves as you progress from blue to gold and then higher gold and platinum.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.