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I've farted and some girls clear off hating it and others laugh at it and stay in the place where the fart smell is.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Which of these options is the best for a first date
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Wow. They must have been really attracted to you. Were those dates successful?I've farted and some girls clear off hating it and others laugh at it and stay in the place where the fart smell is.
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Walk/talk dates and then an ice cream after "if she behaves herself" usually work well
This is a good idea tooWalk/talk dates and then an ice cream after "if she behaves herself" usually work well
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And under 10 bucksThis is a good idea too
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
None. Grab some coffee and find a park to walk. This will provide more one on one attention and minimize any distractions. Plus it will allow you to hold hands or do kino eventually and also kiss during the date without her feeling uncomfortable if she's not into PDA as not too many people will be around.Hello
I almost got a girl on a date just before Universities were closed. In my school, the options I see are quite few. Which of these options do you think would be best for a first date.
1. A semi open restaurant for a drink(orange juice) and snacks(pies, doughnuts and stuff like that). It's the cheapest option
2. A restaurant for real food. (These ones are abundant on campus)
3. The school's zoo. (It's quite large and has many animals, light food and drinks are available at entry point)
4. A nearby cinema. (Students go here quite often but I don't think it's good for a first date)
This is the cheapest and least effort option and one I do quite frequently, especially during the pandemic.
You wanna minimize distractions and get to know her on a first date. You don't want her to view you as an activity partner or a simp resource for her to get free meals or entertainment out of you.
Well said. Some girls keep guys for the underlinedNone. Grab some coffee and find a park to walk. This will provide more one on one attention and minimize any distractions. Plus it will allow you to hold hands or do kino eventually and also kiss during the date without her feeling uncomfortable if she's not into PDA as not too many people will be around.
This is the cheapest and least effort option and one I do quite frequently, especially during the pandemic.
You wanna minimize distractions and get to know her on a first date. You don't want her to view you as an activity partner or a simp resource for her to get free meals or entertainment out of you.