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I've farted and some girls clear off hating it and others laugh at it and stay in the place where the fart smell is.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Which of these options is the best for a first date
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Wow. They must have been really attracted to you. Were those dates successful?I've farted and some girls clear off hating it and others laugh at it and stay in the place where the fart smell is.
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Walk/talk dates and then an ice cream after "if she behaves herself" usually work well
This is a good idea tooWalk/talk dates and then an ice cream after "if she behaves herself" usually work well
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And under 10 bucksThis is a good idea too
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
None. Grab some coffee and find a park to walk. This will provide more one on one attention and minimize any distractions. Plus it will allow you to hold hands or do kino eventually and also kiss during the date without her feeling uncomfortable if she's not into PDA as not too many people will be around.Hello
I almost got a girl on a date just before Universities were closed. In my school, the options I see are quite few. Which of these options do you think would be best for a first date.
1. A semi open restaurant for a drink(orange juice) and snacks(pies, doughnuts and stuff like that). It's the cheapest option
2. A restaurant for real food. (These ones are abundant on campus)
3. The school's zoo. (It's quite large and has many animals, light food and drinks are available at entry point)
4. A nearby cinema. (Students go here quite often but I don't think it's good for a first date)
This is the cheapest and least effort option and one I do quite frequently, especially during the pandemic.
You wanna minimize distractions and get to know her on a first date. You don't want her to view you as an activity partner or a simp resource for her to get free meals or entertainment out of you.
Well said. Some girls keep guys for the underlinedNone. Grab some coffee and find a park to walk. This will provide more one on one attention and minimize any distractions. Plus it will allow you to hold hands or do kino eventually and also kiss during the date without her feeling uncomfortable if she's not into PDA as not too many people will be around.
This is the cheapest and least effort option and one I do quite frequently, especially during the pandemic.
You wanna minimize distractions and get to know her on a first date. You don't want her to view you as an activity partner or a simp resource for her to get free meals or entertainment out of you.