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Which of these options is the best for a first date

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I'm working on my body during this lockdown. My abs to be specific.

About that stink part, really?
I've farted and some girls clear off hating it and others laugh at it and stay in the place where the fart smell is.
 

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I've farted and some girls clear off hating it and others laugh at it and stay in the place where the fart smell is.
Wow. They must have been really attracted to you. Were those dates successful?
 

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Hello

I almost got a girl on a date just before Universities were closed. In my school, the options I see are quite few. Which of these options do you think would be best for a first date.

1. A semi open restaurant for a drink(orange juice) and snacks(pies, doughnuts and stuff like that). It's the cheapest option

2. A restaurant for real food. (These ones are abundant on campus)

3. The school's zoo. (It's quite large and has many animals, light food and drinks are available at entry point)

4. A nearby cinema. (Students go here quite often but I don't think it's good for a first date)
None. Grab some coffee and find a park to walk. This will provide more one on one attention and minimize any distractions. Plus it will allow you to hold hands or do kino eventually and also kiss during the date without her feeling uncomfortable if she's not into PDA as not too many people will be around.

This is the cheapest and least effort option and one I do quite frequently, especially during the pandemic.

You wanna minimize distractions and get to know her on a first date. You don't want her to view you as an activity partner or a simp resource for her to get free meals or entertainment out of you.
 

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None. Grab some coffee and find a park to walk. This will provide more one on one attention and minimize any distractions. Plus it will allow you to hold hands or do kino eventually and also kiss during the date without her feeling uncomfortable if she's not into PDA as not too many people will be around.

This is the cheapest and least effort option and one I do quite frequently, especially during the pandemic.

You wanna minimize distractions and get to know her on a first date. You don't want her to view you as an activity partner or a simp resource for her to get free meals or entertainment out of you.
Well said. Some girls keep guys for the underlined
 
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