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I've farted and some girls clear off hating it and others laugh at it and stay in the place where the fart smell is.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Which of these options is the best for a first date
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Wow. They must have been really attracted to you. Were those dates successful?I've farted and some girls clear off hating it and others laugh at it and stay in the place where the fart smell is.
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Walk/talk dates and then an ice cream after "if she behaves herself" usually work well
This is a good idea tooWalk/talk dates and then an ice cream after "if she behaves herself" usually work well
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And under 10 bucksThis is a good idea too
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
None. Grab some coffee and find a park to walk. This will provide more one on one attention and minimize any distractions. Plus it will allow you to hold hands or do kino eventually and also kiss during the date without her feeling uncomfortable if she's not into PDA as not too many people will be around.Hello
I almost got a girl on a date just before Universities were closed. In my school, the options I see are quite few. Which of these options do you think would be best for a first date.
1. A semi open restaurant for a drink(orange juice) and snacks(pies, doughnuts and stuff like that). It's the cheapest option
2. A restaurant for real food. (These ones are abundant on campus)
3. The school's zoo. (It's quite large and has many animals, light food and drinks are available at entry point)
4. A nearby cinema. (Students go here quite often but I don't think it's good for a first date)
This is the cheapest and least effort option and one I do quite frequently, especially during the pandemic.
You wanna minimize distractions and get to know her on a first date. You don't want her to view you as an activity partner or a simp resource for her to get free meals or entertainment out of you.
Well said. Some girls keep guys for the underlinedNone. Grab some coffee and find a park to walk. This will provide more one on one attention and minimize any distractions. Plus it will allow you to hold hands or do kino eventually and also kiss during the date without her feeling uncomfortable if she's not into PDA as not too many people will be around.
This is the cheapest and least effort option and one I do quite frequently, especially during the pandemic.
You wanna minimize distractions and get to know her on a first date. You don't want her to view you as an activity partner or a simp resource for her to get free meals or entertainment out of you.