“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Which dance style do you own?

tesla8520

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I dance salsa, although lately I've been thinking about switching to other styles.

Salsa makes me feel a little too "feminine."
What dance styles do you know and have you practiced?
 

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The one where I do what I feel and dance like nobody is watching, not giving two fvcks what anyone else thinks.

Ironically, it's the one that will almost always attract the most women, because it displays something that is almost universally attractive to women that can't be faked.
 

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Ironically, it's the one that will almost always attract the most women, because it displays something that is almost universally attractive to women that can't be faked.
Speaking of that, this is one of my dance teacher.

A good man, as you can see, stays in his own skin. He's a really nice guy. He knows how to take a woman and lead her. Dancing helped create an aura of fun and humor in him.
I have always considered such a man to be ideal, but in my opinion, he laughs or it's just happy, too much.

It's really "too" happy in that sense. He has no expressions or moments of mystery... or intimidation.
I don't know how to explain it but I don't feel intimidated by him.
 

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The only dancing I like is slow dancing.

Slow grinding to R&B music or oldies, with her hands over my broad shoulders and my hands on her hips.

Bodies touching and lips kissing as we slow grind.

Grown folks shiit...y'all don't know nothin bout that. :lol:
 

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I dance salsa, although lately I've been thinking about switching to other styles.

Salsa makes me feel a little too "feminine."
What dance styles do you know and have you practiced?
That's an easy fix, stop moving your hips so much lol that's her job

In all seriousness west coast swing is pretty awesome. She gets to do her crazy, sexy sh*t and I get to stand there and look amazing without sweating my balls off.
 

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That's an easy fix, stop moving your hips so much lol that's her job

In all seriousness west coast swing is pretty awesome. She gets to do her crazy, sexy sh*t and I get to stand there and look amazing without sweating my balls off.
I do remember seeing some instruction on dancing where the said the guy's job is basically to highlight the woman while she does her thing. Kinda makes sense.
 

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Line dancing with a bit of break dancing, and mixing some of my own moves if I really like the music.
 

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I think dancing helps men become comfortable with rejection (dancing in front of everyone), develop an idgaf attitude, gain mastery and control over their bodies, and become sensual.

But most importantly, it teaches you how to have fun with a woman's body.

There's no going back, guys.

It's as if when you learn to dance, you now know what to do physically to a woman to have fun with her physically, any woman!

So you no longer see two breasts and an ass, but rather all the elements that connect to her brain.

Great post, I wonder if there are other disciplines/activities a man can do in his life to take total control of having fun with a woman's body.

Besides sex, which is obvious, I was thinking about things like learning to give massages, and something like improvisation.

What do you think?
 
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