"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Where do us great guys find women like you guys?

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@BeExcellent , @catsmeow2

I love both of your intelligence and insights. Since Pan left, you guys are my favorite posters.

But where do I find a woman who is smart, sexy, upstanding in character, and loyal and committed.

I once had a penpal tell me in the churches and libraries.

Maybe you've mentioned it and I missed it, but where did you meet your men, and under what circumstances?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Get ready for meandering novels lacking chapter titles, summaries and tl;dr's. Anyone who's a fan of David Foster Wallace, this thread is for you.
 

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@BeExcellent , @catsmeow2

I love both of your intelligence and insights. Since Pan left, you guys are my favorite posters.
I have nothing against their forum participation (the more varied perspectives, the better) … but these two women are your “favorites?“

Perhaps you should consider turning in your man-card and joining loveshack.
 

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I have nothing against their forum participation (the more varied perspectives, the better) … but these two women are your “favorites?“

Perhaps you should consider turning in your man-card and joining loveshack.
I can recognize wise women, and I have no problem expressing my appreciation for them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I can recognize wise women, and I have no problem expressing my appreciation for them.
Thanks for sharing. For years, I've had sleepless nights... wondering if you could recognize wise women and express your appreciation for them. In fact, that's why most of us signed up on sosuave. Now that our prayers have been answered, we might finally have a good nights sleep.
 

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Thanks for sharing. For years, I've had sleepless nights... wondering if you could recognize wise women and express your appreciation for them. In fact, that's why most of us signed up on sosuave. Now our prayers have been answered, we might finally have a good nights sleep.
Wow, you're a pretty antagonistic type of guy, huh?
 

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BeeeeeeeeeeeeEEEEEEEeexxxxeeeeccccccceeeeeelllllllleeeeeeeeeennnnnttttttttt!!!!!!!!

Caaaaaaattttttttsssssssssmmmmmmeeeeeeeeooooowwwwwwww2222222222!!!

Check in with me. I've been impatient for your responses all evening, and so far, nothing. :(
 

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BeeeeeeeeeeeeEEEEEEEeexxxxeeeeccccccceeeeeelllllllleeeeeeeeeennnnnttttttttt!!!!!!!!

Caaaaaaattttttttsssssssssmmmmmmeeeeeeeeooooowwwwwwww2222222222!!!

Check in with me. I've been impatient for your responses all evening, and so far, nothing. :(
Do you not see how pathetic you look right now? Holy shvt at the lack of self awareness
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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And for those of you who hate on me because these two fine ladies are my favorite posters:

They're smart, sexy and loyal.

And if I want to find a chick like that, these lovely ladies hold the wisdom to my success.
 

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In depth response to come. Currently in Newport Beach with fiancé for his birthday ;)

Cheers
Can I call you Queen Bee? BeExcellent. B.E. But then add another E. BEE... Queen Bee!

How cool is that?

Cause you are! You're super rad! I love your posts a lot!

If I was in Government, I could Commission you to write a Manual on how a young woman should conduct herself and her life, and how she can find Peace, Joy and Happiness in Life, and then teach it as course in public education.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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They're smart, sexy and loyal.
Sounds like you've got one-itis for internet people.

That's like three layers deep of hallucinations.

They're probably not answering since you are coming across as weird creep who'll end up stalking/worshipping/fapping to their posts if they do answer you.
 

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Sounds like you've got one-itis for internet people.

That's like three layers deep of hallucinations.

They're probably not answering since you are coming across as weird creep who'll end up stalking/worshipping/fapping to their posts if they do answer you.
You're such a brat!
 

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They're a dime a dozen, mate.

Your just fooled by their need to appear high value in all their posts is all
they are decent forum posters , but what they say is nothing more than what most women say “ just be funny and confident “ . Needless to say , this does not really get you anywhere worthwhile

actually taking as a given advice from women is really bad , mainly because they have no idea what actually they want

guys find reasons to bang / date women . Women find reasons to not bang/date men

You can not take advice from women since it can not really be applied to a men . Their game only works because they have a lot of options naturally , not because they “create” these options

most guys s8ck at the creation part
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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