"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Where do us great guys find women like you guys?

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@BeExcellent , @catsmeow2

I love both of your intelligence and insights. Since Pan left, you guys are my favorite posters.

But where do I find a woman who is smart, sexy, upstanding in character, and loyal and committed.

I once had a penpal tell me in the churches and libraries.

Maybe you've mentioned it and I missed it, but where did you meet your men, and under what circumstances?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Get ready for meandering novels lacking chapter titles, summaries and tl;dr's. Anyone who's a fan of David Foster Wallace, this thread is for you.
 

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@BeExcellent , @catsmeow2

I love both of your intelligence and insights. Since Pan left, you guys are my favorite posters.
I have nothing against their forum participation (the more varied perspectives, the better) … but these two women are your “favorites?“

Perhaps you should consider turning in your man-card and joining loveshack.
 

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I have nothing against their forum participation (the more varied perspectives, the better) … but these two women are your “favorites?“

Perhaps you should consider turning in your man-card and joining loveshack.
I can recognize wise women, and I have no problem expressing my appreciation for them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I can recognize wise women, and I have no problem expressing my appreciation for them.
Thanks for sharing. For years, I've had sleepless nights... wondering if you could recognize wise women and express your appreciation for them. In fact, that's why most of us signed up on sosuave. Now that our prayers have been answered, we might finally have a good nights sleep.
 

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Thanks for sharing. For years, I've had sleepless nights... wondering if you could recognize wise women and express your appreciation for them. In fact, that's why most of us signed up on sosuave. Now our prayers have been answered, we might finally have a good nights sleep.
Wow, you're a pretty antagonistic type of guy, huh?
 

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BeeeeeeeeeeeeEEEEEEEeexxxxeeeeccccccceeeeeelllllllleeeeeeeeeennnnnttttttttt!!!!!!!!

Caaaaaaattttttttsssssssssmmmmmmeeeeeeeeooooowwwwwwww2222222222!!!

Check in with me. I've been impatient for your responses all evening, and so far, nothing. :(
 

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BeeeeeeeeeeeeEEEEEEEeexxxxeeeeccccccceeeeeelllllllleeeeeeeeeennnnnttttttttt!!!!!!!!

Caaaaaaattttttttsssssssssmmmmmmeeeeeeeeooooowwwwwwww2222222222!!!

Check in with me. I've been impatient for your responses all evening, and so far, nothing. :(
Do you not see how pathetic you look right now? Holy shvt at the lack of self awareness
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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And for those of you who hate on me because these two fine ladies are my favorite posters:

They're smart, sexy and loyal.

And if I want to find a chick like that, these lovely ladies hold the wisdom to my success.
 

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In depth response to come. Currently in Newport Beach with fiancé for his birthday ;)

Cheers
Can I call you Queen Bee? BeExcellent. B.E. But then add another E. BEE... Queen Bee!

How cool is that?

Cause you are! You're super rad! I love your posts a lot!

If I was in Government, I could Commission you to write a Manual on how a young woman should conduct herself and her life, and how she can find Peace, Joy and Happiness in Life, and then teach it as course in public education.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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They're smart, sexy and loyal.
Sounds like you've got one-itis for internet people.

That's like three layers deep of hallucinations.

They're probably not answering since you are coming across as weird creep who'll end up stalking/worshipping/fapping to their posts if they do answer you.
 

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Sounds like you've got one-itis for internet people.

That's like three layers deep of hallucinations.

They're probably not answering since you are coming across as weird creep who'll end up stalking/worshipping/fapping to their posts if they do answer you.
You're such a brat!
 

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They're a dime a dozen, mate.

Your just fooled by their need to appear high value in all their posts is all
they are decent forum posters , but what they say is nothing more than what most women say “ just be funny and confident “ . Needless to say , this does not really get you anywhere worthwhile

actually taking as a given advice from women is really bad , mainly because they have no idea what actually they want

guys find reasons to bang / date women . Women find reasons to not bang/date men

You can not take advice from women since it can not really be applied to a men . Their game only works because they have a lot of options naturally , not because they “create” these options

most guys s8ck at the creation part
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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