"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When you like a girl who likes someone else

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When you like a girl who likes someone else how do you react if at all?

What if she or friends tell you: Don't worry you'll find someone for you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NEXT her, go after someone who has a high IL
use her if she has hot friends otherwise keep her as a source for your information network
 

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switch said:
NEXT her, go after someone who has a high IL
use her if she has hot friends otherwise keep her as a source for your information network
Or, rather than just a "source", keep her as a friend and still just flow through life. Try again with someone who has a high interest level, though.
 

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switch said:
NEXT her, go after someone who has a high IL
Totally agree but for guys who have trouble attracting women, they're likely to wonder "where the F do I find a girl with high interest?".

Well, that isn't really the point. The point is that this girl isn't the answer. So you have to look elsewhere. Keep putting yourself out there and keep improving yourself. A girl with high interest will show up eventually.
 

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i have a different opinion on this matter. i dont believe in this crap about finding a girl with high interest level. you are the one who controls her interest level. if you've done a good job attracting her from the first place her interest levels should be high. if her interest levels are low then you obviously screwed up somewhere. if the girl is not in a commited relationship, and she only "likes" someone is no excuse to next her. chicks change their minds all the time. most guys are lame and will screw up their chances. then she'll start liking someone else. take your chances, make your moves. go after what you want, every girl has a guy in her phone that she likes. why not make that guy be you? learn from your mistakes, but keep working on your attraction game. if there is one piece of advice i can give you its this. you'll have more success going too far than not far enough.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bumsniff said:
When you like a girl who likes someone else how do you react if at all?

What if she or friends tell you: Don't worry you'll find someone for you.
all females like multiple men... dont ever think that you are the only man she wants to F even if she is your wife...

you job is to get what you want from her as far as good sex money cooking etc.. you can have all those thing but the one thing you can never have is all her affection to yourself or all her PU$$Y fro your self
 

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Find out what kind of douchbag she's attracted to. Then you will lose respect/interest for/in her and can easy move on to another girl.

Remember, she's hot and appealing UNTIL you find out who she's F-ing or wants to F. Then she's usually gross lol.
 

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thevilittletroll said:
i have a different opinion on this matter. i dont believe in this crap about finding a girl with high interest level. you are the one who controls her interest level. if you've done a good job attracting her from the first place her interest levels should be high. if her interest levels are low then you obviously screwed up somewhere. if the girl is not in a commited relationship, and she only "likes" someone is no excuse to next her. chicks change their minds all the time. most guys are lame and will screw up their chances. then she'll start liking someone else. take your chances, make your moves. go after what you want, every girl has a guy in her phone that she likes. why not make that guy be you? learn from your mistakes, but keep working on your attraction game. if there is one piece of advice i can give you its this. you'll have more success going too far than not far enough.
that might be your style, but i personally don't have the nerves to "induce" interest in a girl, since it's a pain in the a$$ to keep the interest level
a girl with high IL is easier to manage,though she is a bit harder to find
:D
 

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Mike32ct said:
There is only one solid attraction game. It's called looks.

You can't create attraction with "game." The best you can do is increase the attraction that is already there with proper game.

MOTHERFUCCING GOLD THIS NEEDS A STICKY
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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