You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Or, rather than just a "source", keep her as a friend and still just flow through life. Try again with someone who has a high interest level, though.switch said:NEXT her, go after someone who has a high IL
use her if she has hot friends otherwise keep her as a source for your information network
Totally agree but for guys who have trouble attracting women, they're likely to wonder "where the F do I find a girl with high interest?".switch said:NEXT her, go after someone who has a high IL
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
all females like multiple men... dont ever think that you are the only man she wants to F even if she is your wife...Bumsniff said:When you like a girl who likes someone else how do you react if at all?
What if she or friends tell you: Don't worry you'll find someone for you.
that might be your style, but i personally don't have the nerves to "induce" interest in a girl, since it's a pain in the a$$ to keep the interest levelthevilittletroll said:i have a different opinion on this matter. i dont believe in this crap about finding a girl with high interest level. you are the one who controls her interest level. if you've done a good job attracting her from the first place her interest levels should be high. if her interest levels are low then you obviously screwed up somewhere. if the girl is not in a commited relationship, and she only "likes" someone is no excuse to next her. chicks change their minds all the time. most guys are lame and will screw up their chances. then she'll start liking someone else. take your chances, make your moves. go after what you want, every girl has a guy in her phone that she likes. why not make that guy be you? learn from your mistakes, but keep working on your attraction game. if there is one piece of advice i can give you its this. you'll have more success going too far than not far enough.
Mike32ct said:There is only one solid attraction game. It's called looks.
You can't create attraction with "game." The best you can do is increase the attraction that is already there with proper game.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.