Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Or, rather than just a "source", keep her as a friend and still just flow through life. Try again with someone who has a high interest level, though.switch said:NEXT her, go after someone who has a high IL
use her if she has hot friends otherwise keep her as a source for your information network
Totally agree but for guys who have trouble attracting women, they're likely to wonder "where the F do I find a girl with high interest?".switch said:NEXT her, go after someone who has a high IL
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
all females like multiple men... dont ever think that you are the only man she wants to F even if she is your wife...Bumsniff said:When you like a girl who likes someone else how do you react if at all?
What if she or friends tell you: Don't worry you'll find someone for you.
that might be your style, but i personally don't have the nerves to "induce" interest in a girl, since it's a pain in the a$$ to keep the interest levelthevilittletroll said:i have a different opinion on this matter. i dont believe in this crap about finding a girl with high interest level. you are the one who controls her interest level. if you've done a good job attracting her from the first place her interest levels should be high. if her interest levels are low then you obviously screwed up somewhere. if the girl is not in a commited relationship, and she only "likes" someone is no excuse to next her. chicks change their minds all the time. most guys are lame and will screw up their chances. then she'll start liking someone else. take your chances, make your moves. go after what you want, every girl has a guy in her phone that she likes. why not make that guy be you? learn from your mistakes, but keep working on your attraction game. if there is one piece of advice i can give you its this. you'll have more success going too far than not far enough.
Mike32ct said:There is only one solid attraction game. It's called looks.
You can't create attraction with "game." The best you can do is increase the attraction that is already there with proper game.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.