"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When you like a girl who likes someone else

Bumsniff

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When you like a girl who likes someone else how do you react if at all?

What if she or friends tell you: Don't worry you'll find someone for you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NEXT her, go after someone who has a high IL
use her if she has hot friends otherwise keep her as a source for your information network
 

Sneevox

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switch said:
NEXT her, go after someone who has a high IL
use her if she has hot friends otherwise keep her as a source for your information network
Or, rather than just a "source", keep her as a friend and still just flow through life. Try again with someone who has a high interest level, though.
 

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switch said:
NEXT her, go after someone who has a high IL
Totally agree but for guys who have trouble attracting women, they're likely to wonder "where the F do I find a girl with high interest?".

Well, that isn't really the point. The point is that this girl isn't the answer. So you have to look elsewhere. Keep putting yourself out there and keep improving yourself. A girl with high interest will show up eventually.
 

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i have a different opinion on this matter. i dont believe in this crap about finding a girl with high interest level. you are the one who controls her interest level. if you've done a good job attracting her from the first place her interest levels should be high. if her interest levels are low then you obviously screwed up somewhere. if the girl is not in a commited relationship, and she only "likes" someone is no excuse to next her. chicks change their minds all the time. most guys are lame and will screw up their chances. then she'll start liking someone else. take your chances, make your moves. go after what you want, every girl has a guy in her phone that she likes. why not make that guy be you? learn from your mistakes, but keep working on your attraction game. if there is one piece of advice i can give you its this. you'll have more success going too far than not far enough.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonGorgon

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Bumsniff said:
When you like a girl who likes someone else how do you react if at all?

What if she or friends tell you: Don't worry you'll find someone for you.
all females like multiple men... dont ever think that you are the only man she wants to F even if she is your wife...

you job is to get what you want from her as far as good sex money cooking etc.. you can have all those thing but the one thing you can never have is all her affection to yourself or all her PU$$Y fro your self
 

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Find out what kind of douchbag she's attracted to. Then you will lose respect/interest for/in her and can easy move on to another girl.

Remember, she's hot and appealing UNTIL you find out who she's F-ing or wants to F. Then she's usually gross lol.
 

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thevilittletroll said:
i have a different opinion on this matter. i dont believe in this crap about finding a girl with high interest level. you are the one who controls her interest level. if you've done a good job attracting her from the first place her interest levels should be high. if her interest levels are low then you obviously screwed up somewhere. if the girl is not in a commited relationship, and she only "likes" someone is no excuse to next her. chicks change their minds all the time. most guys are lame and will screw up their chances. then she'll start liking someone else. take your chances, make your moves. go after what you want, every girl has a guy in her phone that she likes. why not make that guy be you? learn from your mistakes, but keep working on your attraction game. if there is one piece of advice i can give you its this. you'll have more success going too far than not far enough.
that might be your style, but i personally don't have the nerves to "induce" interest in a girl, since it's a pain in the a$$ to keep the interest level
a girl with high IL is easier to manage,though she is a bit harder to find
:D
 

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Mike32ct said:
There is only one solid attraction game. It's called looks.

You can't create attraction with "game." The best you can do is increase the attraction that is already there with proper game.

MOTHERFUCCING GOLD THIS NEEDS A STICKY
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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