"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When you like a girl who likes someone else
- Thread starter Bumsniff
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
switch
Master Don Juan
use her if she has hot friends otherwise keep her as a source for your information network
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
Or, rather than just a "source", keep her as a friend and still just flow through life. Try again with someone who has a high interest level, though.switch said:
zekko
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Totally agree but for guys who have trouble attracting women, they're likely to wonder "where the F do I find a girl with high interest?".switch said:
Well, that isn't really the point. The point is that this girl isn't the answer. So you have to look elsewhere. Keep putting yourself out there and keep improving yourself. A girl with high interest will show up eventually.
thevilittletroll
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DonGorgon
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all females like multiple men... dont ever think that you are the only man she wants to F even if she is your wife...Bumsniff said:
you job is to get what you want from her as far as good sex money cooking etc.. you can have all those thing but the one thing you can never have is all her affection to yourself or all her PU$$Y fro your self
Mike32ct
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Remember, she's hot and appealing UNTIL you find out who she's F-ing or wants to F. Then she's usually gross lol.
switch
Master Don Juan
that might be your style, but i personally don't have the nerves to "induce" interest in a girl, since it's a pain in the a$$ to keep the interest levelthevilittletroll said:
a girl with high IL is easier to manage,though she is a bit harder to find
Mike32ct
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You can't create attraction with "game." The best you can do is increase the attraction that is already there with proper game.
youngmack
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Mike32ct said:
MOTHERFUCCING GOLD THIS NEEDS A STICKY
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.