abe0
Senior Don Juan
Many months ago. For whatever reasons the last four women I've dated don't do much cuddling.....kind of cold. I dont want to sound too betta.....but I miss cuddling. I do have a dog.....but its not the same. Abe
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You miss cuddling? Wait until you have a needy woman who wants it all the time then you won't miss it anymore. Best option is to bang her until she can't walk, then no cuddling is needed because she goes right to sleep and you get up and do whatever you want.abe0 said:Many months ago. For whatever reasons the last four women I've dated don't do much cuddling.....kind of cold. I dont want to sound too betta.....but I miss cuddling. I do have a dog.....but its not the same. Abe
Yeah I only said that because it happens to me. Doing it raw I last under 5 minutes usually. If I use the condom I can go indefinitely. So you planning to have a kid or what? We are not really planning anything but if it happens it happens. Not trying to prevent it at this point.LiveFreeX said:Its really cold here right now actually, so cuddling provides much needed heat.
But yes to answer your question, I am doing it raw and on average I think its more like 5 to 10 minutes. haha.Its kind of unfair because I usually just plug in, do my thing, roll over and back to sleep.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This...MtnMan said:Saturday. I like to bang it out animal style, take a quick nap/cuddle and bang it out some more, nap again. Rinse and repeat as many times as necessary.