abe0
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Many months ago. For whatever reasons the last four women I've dated don't do much cuddling.....kind of cold. I dont want to sound too betta.....but I miss cuddling. I do have a dog.....but its not the same. Abe
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When was the last time you cuddled?
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You miss cuddling? Wait until you have a needy woman who wants it all the time then you won't miss it anymore. Best option is to bang her until she can't walk, then no cuddling is needed because she goes right to sleep and you get up and do whatever you want.abe0 said:
LiveFreeX
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Its really cold here right now actually, so cuddling provides much needed heat.
But yes to answer your question, I am doing it raw and on average I think its more like 5 to 10 minutes. haha.
Its kind of unfair because I usually just plug in, do my thing, roll over and back to sleep.
But yes to answer your question, I am doing it raw and on average I think its more like 5 to 10 minutes. haha.
Its kind of unfair because I usually just plug in, do my thing, roll over and back to sleep.Married Buried
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Yeah I only said that because it happens to me. Doing it raw I last under 5 minutes usually. If I use the condom I can go indefinitely. So you planning to have a kid or what? We are not really planning anything but if it happens it happens. Not trying to prevent it at this point.LiveFreeX said:Its really cold here right now actually, so cuddling provides much needed heat.
But yes to answer your question, I am doing it raw and on average I think its more like 5 to 10 minutes. haha.
I do the bust and sleep too, she doesn't care. She is still happy!
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I cuddled last night... between the BJ and "round 2"
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Hah, geee-sus this question was a reality check for me. Last time I cuddled was with my LTR ex almost 2 years ago. Could that be right? Where does the time go.