"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When was the last time you cuddled?

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Many months ago. For whatever reasons the last four women I've dated don't do much cuddling.....kind of cold. I dont want to sound too betta.....but I miss cuddling. I do have a dog.....but its not the same. Abe
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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abe0 said:
Many months ago. For whatever reasons the last four women I've dated don't do much cuddling.....kind of cold. I dont want to sound too betta.....but I miss cuddling. I do have a dog.....but its not the same. Abe
You miss cuddling? Wait until you have a needy woman who wants it all the time then you won't miss it anymore. Best option is to bang her until she can't walk, then no cuddling is needed because she goes right to sleep and you get up and do whatever you want.
 

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Its really cold here right now actually, so cuddling provides much needed heat.

But yes to answer your question, I am doing it raw and on average I think its more like 5 to 10 minutes. haha. :D Its kind of unfair because I usually just plug in, do my thing, roll over and back to sleep.
 

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LiveFreeX said:
Its really cold here right now actually, so cuddling provides much needed heat.

But yes to answer your question, I am doing it raw and on average I think its more like 5 to 10 minutes. haha. :D Its kind of unfair because I usually just plug in, do my thing, roll over and back to sleep.
Yeah I only said that because it happens to me. Doing it raw I last under 5 minutes usually. If I use the condom I can go indefinitely. So you planning to have a kid or what? We are not really planning anything but if it happens it happens. Not trying to prevent it at this point.

I do the bust and sleep too, she doesn't care. She is still happy!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Saturday. I like to bang it out animal style, take a quick nap/cuddle and bang it out some more, nap again. Rinse and repeat as many times as necessary.
This...
 

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All the time. Just about every time I fcvk.

If you don't you have no soul.
 

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Hah, geee-sus this question was a reality check for me. Last time I cuddled was with my LTR ex almost 2 years ago. Could that be right? Where does the time go.
 
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