abe0
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Many months ago. For whatever reasons the last four women I've dated don't do much cuddling.....kind of cold. I dont want to sound too betta.....but I miss cuddling. I do have a dog.....but its not the same. Abe
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When was the last time you cuddled?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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You miss cuddling? Wait until you have a needy woman who wants it all the time then you won't miss it anymore. Best option is to bang her until she can't walk, then no cuddling is needed because she goes right to sleep and you get up and do whatever you want.abe0 said:
LiveFreeX
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Its really cold here right now actually, so cuddling provides much needed heat.
But yes to answer your question, I am doing it raw and on average I think its more like 5 to 10 minutes. haha.
Its kind of unfair because I usually just plug in, do my thing, roll over and back to sleep.
But yes to answer your question, I am doing it raw and on average I think its more like 5 to 10 minutes. haha.
Its kind of unfair because I usually just plug in, do my thing, roll over and back to sleep.Married Buried
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Yeah I only said that because it happens to me. Doing it raw I last under 5 minutes usually. If I use the condom I can go indefinitely. So you planning to have a kid or what? We are not really planning anything but if it happens it happens. Not trying to prevent it at this point.LiveFreeX said:Its really cold here right now actually, so cuddling provides much needed heat.
But yes to answer your question, I am doing it raw and on average I think its more like 5 to 10 minutes. haha.
I do the bust and sleep too, she doesn't care. She is still happy!
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I cuddled last night... between the BJ and "round 2"
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Hah, geee-sus this question was a reality check for me. Last time I cuddled was with my LTR ex almost 2 years ago. Could that be right? Where does the time go.