abe0
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Many months ago. For whatever reasons the last four women I've dated don't do much cuddling.....kind of cold. I dont want to sound too betta.....but I miss cuddling. I do have a dog.....but its not the same. Abe
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When was the last time you cuddled?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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You miss cuddling? Wait until you have a needy woman who wants it all the time then you won't miss it anymore. Best option is to bang her until she can't walk, then no cuddling is needed because she goes right to sleep and you get up and do whatever you want.abe0 said:
LiveFreeX
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Its really cold here right now actually, so cuddling provides much needed heat.
But yes to answer your question, I am doing it raw and on average I think its more like 5 to 10 minutes. haha.
Its kind of unfair because I usually just plug in, do my thing, roll over and back to sleep.
But yes to answer your question, I am doing it raw and on average I think its more like 5 to 10 minutes. haha.
Its kind of unfair because I usually just plug in, do my thing, roll over and back to sleep.Married Buried
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Yeah I only said that because it happens to me. Doing it raw I last under 5 minutes usually. If I use the condom I can go indefinitely. So you planning to have a kid or what? We are not really planning anything but if it happens it happens. Not trying to prevent it at this point.LiveFreeX said:Its really cold here right now actually, so cuddling provides much needed heat.
But yes to answer your question, I am doing it raw and on average I think its more like 5 to 10 minutes. haha.
I do the bust and sleep too, she doesn't care. She is still happy!
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I cuddled last night... between the BJ and "round 2"
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Hah, geee-sus this question was a reality check for me. Last time I cuddled was with my LTR ex almost 2 years ago. Could that be right? Where does the time go.