"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a girl asks...
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
CrazyGoNuts
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She could be a lil sexually inexperienced herself, but she is interested in you and whats to know how "far" you've gone as well. Sometimes girls can be a bit cautious when they start to really explore sex stuff with guys and are too embarrassed to do it with someone who has considerable more experience than they do. Remember, girls have self-conscious issues too..
i am taking it further
so im guessing shes interested in knowing this because she wants to know if she can go further without feeling embarassed?? im kinda confused about the whole thing..
at the time, i felt that i should say i have only done certain things as to not intimidate her...it felt right to me.
so i actually held back some stuff/lied.
i think i did the best thing for my situtation - feel free to criticize me tho
i'd still like more detail on what this question "means" from a girl.
CrazyGoNuts
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
"Oh quite far ....to the next state, did that answer your question?"
" I don't kiss and tell"
"C'mon, what do you think! (with a knowing look)"
"look you can't seduce me that way...I think your going to have to try abit harder"
"which one?"
"I will tell you, when I think you deserve to know"
"why does it always revovle around sex with you? don't you want to get to know the real me...I hate it when women do this to me...your just like all the rest"
Those are the sort of replies I would fire back if I felt they were in the context.
these are actually pretty good. whena girl asks something relating to past gf's, it definitely mean they have high IL in you.
my friend did that **** to me, asked me how much gf's i had in the past. I just walked around the question and not really answering it.
but yea, the safest way is to avoid being AFC and answering her straight out. cause you'll never know what answer she expects to hear from you, which will increase her IL if you dont tell her.
similarly, this is also a test they throw at you.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
wants to know how experienced you are.
my present girlfriend once asked me,
"are you a player? ive heard you are. "
i juz smiled. and now we're a couple.
you don't have to answer every question she throws at ya.
leave a sense of mystery.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I would not use this, as it just seems too sweet and innocent, AFC, whether it be true or not. It also seems like a line out of some chick-flick..remain a challenge, be a man. That comment then action would you require you to really know the girl and of been dating for awhile otherwise it seems fake.
I may be wrong, it might work in the right situation, like both drunk and both sitting on your bed but its definately nothing I would recommend. I would rather use one of my comments from above, look her in the eyes then glance at her lips, then back to her eyes then go in for the kill.
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
Means she wants her Salad Tossed... followed by a Dirty Sanchez...
Tell her you'll fart in her mouth.... then say 'How's that for going far?'
Ol'BlueEyes
Senior Don Juan
Tell her you took a girl to the north pole....than pause for a second to let the double-entendre sink in.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Don't you mean the "SOUTH Pole?"Originally posted by Ol'BlueEyes
Tell her you took a girl to the north pole....than pause for a second to let the double-entendre sink in.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"Why do you want to know? It doesn't have to be a competition."
Ol'BlueEyes
Senior Don Juan
(in the voice of Vic Romano)
Right you are, Fran.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.